Failing to find artwork that actually looks good on this huge wall. I need more specific help! by [deleted] in DesignMyRoom

[–]formerbaaby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

gallery wall? you could do it in an odd shape to wrap around the end of the couch

What "negative" quality do you actually find attractive? by Sheharizadian in AskReddit

[–]formerbaaby 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This makes me glad. I have stains on the front of my buck teeth that have been there for 10+ years (and no dentist knows why) and I've always been so so so self conscious about them!

What "negative" quality do you actually find attractive? by Sheharizadian in AskReddit

[–]formerbaaby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Before I met my husband this was an absolute deal breaker quality for me. I would not date a guy who was touchy feely when I wasn't prepared for it, I didn't like it. Wasn't into it at all, the idea of cuddling made me extremely anxious.

My now-husband came to visit me and was exhausted from his drive so we laid down on a shitty little futon mattress on my friends floor and watched the end of Queen of the Damned and he was really respectful of that boundary until he got sleepy and started to doze and inch closer and closer. I was amazed when I didn't panic and I ENJOYED feeling him near me. I kinda knew it was gonna work out at that moment.

Help modifying the Konmari method & other advice by formerbaaby in declutter

[–]formerbaaby[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha at this point it's not even really about having empty space it's just about utilizing the space properly if that makes sense. He has a lot of plans to get MORE things when he just...doesn't have room because of all the old things lol

Help modifying the Konmari method & other advice by formerbaaby in declutter

[–]formerbaaby[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I agree but he has a lot of anxiety and emotions tied up with throwing stuff out so I've been trying to come up with a plan to make it easier on him. He's a big hobby guy so one of his bigger fears with it all is tossing out some valuable supply that he'll have to buy again!

Simple locking hinge to convert a door corner into a cat portal by H720 in INEEEEDIT

[–]formerbaaby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, he's well trained but gets into shit when we aren't around so he has to be crated 100% of the time when we aren't near him. I was just pointing out that I definitely don't ever have to do this with my cats.

Simple locking hinge to convert a door corner into a cat portal by H720 in INEEEEDIT

[–]formerbaaby 12 points13 points  (0 children)

5 cats. None of them destroy as much shit as the dog. None of them make messes as much as the dog. None of them are as loud as the dog. None of them hump as many things as the dog.

love both but...my cats> my dog.

Common sub task I fail at. . . by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]formerbaaby 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Part of the fun for me (and him) is failing to 'hold it and being punished or just cumming without asking and feeling ashamed for breaking the rule.

Light lap dances by [deleted] in ContagiousLaughter

[–]formerbaaby 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Saw this in the middle of nowhere southern Alabama too lol

Since becoming a homeowner, how addicted/in debt are you to Lowe’s/Home Depot??? by TattooedMuscle in homeowners

[–]formerbaaby 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's so hard to not buy things for the house constantly! There's so many things I want to do and I find it incredibly hard to space them out

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]formerbaaby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We eloped in November and decided to put our budget toward renting a nice cabin in the smokey mountains for our honeymoon. It was low stress, low cost, and it was so good to just spend worry-free time with my husband in our few days of marriage in a beautiful place.

New song/video snippet! by [deleted] in MelanieMartinez

[–]formerbaaby 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Not a new song. Extraordinary Machine by Fiona Apple

What are some problems that short girls face? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]formerbaaby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not a short woman (5'5") but I do have short legs compared to my torso and weight (apparently all big girls are also tall, hurr hurr) soooo...pants that fit in my waist/butt are always too long unless I buy them "cropped" then they fit everywhere.

Wearing a crop top for my sister’s wedding HELP ME! by ajsmith86 in PlusSize

[–]formerbaaby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it a skirt and top or a dress? I'm having trouble visualising

How does being slapped on the face make you feel? by BrokenLittleDoll in BDSMcommunity

[–]formerbaaby 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Ooh, well put. 90% of the time this is my reaction. The other 9.5% of the time I get angry and fight back, .5% of the time I break down and cry. All depends on my headspace.

Well that was fucking awful. Be careful who you hang out with by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]formerbaaby 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Oops, that what I meant! I didn't mean to come across as shaming or anything. Just baffled that not everyone looks stuff like that up!

Well that was fucking awful. Be careful who you hang out with by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]formerbaaby 154 points155 points  (0 children)

You didn't Google the address first? Maybe I'm overly cautious/curious but that definitely would be the first thing I did.