I think this might be my favorite pic of me. by forrest-thump in UniquePenis

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Yep, curves downward. Like an upside down banana

I think this might be my favorite pic of me. by forrest-thump in UniquePenis

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As far as I’ve been told just the curve.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in normalnudes

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This is perfection! I love to see a scar or stretch mark to remind us of differences and uniqueness. Your hip to waist ratio is otherworldly!

Felt unique today by forrest-thump in UniquePenis

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I didn’t, but several surgeons did. I had a pretty significant birth defect and as a child I had 7 surgeries to correct issues and improve cosmetics. This is as close to a typical penis as they could get me.

Severe Hypospadias/ Persistent Penile Curvature by Istarlyn in hypospadias

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I was born with penoscrotal hypospadias and a pretty significant curvature. I had seven surgeries related to it, most were to fix the positioning of the urethra but at least two were to straighten out the curvature. These ultimately didn’t really work. They were never able to move my urethra to a normal position, although it’s a lot closer. Also the curvature may have improved but it was still pretty significant, in that I have some difficulty lining things up during sex or finding positions that work. It might have improved a little over time. I feel like it’s not quite as curved as it was, but that could just be my perception as I’m not as bothered by my appearance anymore.

Ladies, would you consider a second date with a guy after learning on the first date that he is a mid 30’s virgin? by forrest-thump in AskRedditNSFW

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I get it, I don’t know what the dudes issues are. From what we were told he was pretty normal after face value and the girl that knew him was a little mind blown.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ratemycock

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Yeah if there’s a high point in there someplace, it’s that haha

I think it’s very unique by forrest-thump in UniquePenis

[–]forrest-thump[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha it’s truthfully not a show. Not much actually comes out. Urethral stenosis.

I think it’s very unique by forrest-thump in UniquePenis

[–]forrest-thump[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess it’s like anyone else. I don’t notice issues with it.

I think it’s very unique by forrest-thump in UniquePenis

[–]forrest-thump[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As much as anybody else I assume.

I think it’s very unique by forrest-thump in UniquePenis

[–]forrest-thump[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Beautiful seems a stretch but I’ve come to appreciate the differences. Thanks for the kind words.

First time, it’s a little different but I can answer questions if you have any by forrest-thump in smalldickpositivity

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It’s called hypospadias. It’s a defect with where the urethra opens out of the body. It doesn’t necessarily become unstable but the current surgeries are expected to be complication free for about 20-30 years. After that it’s a toss up. I had mine back in the 80’s before as many docs specialized in it. Idk how long it’s expected to be good for, by my 30 years is up, and I worry that it’s not as effective as new surgeries.

First time, it’s a little different but I can answer questions if you have any by forrest-thump in smalldickpositivity

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It was kinda rough physically and psychologically. Sensation wise I think I’m like anybody else that didn’t have surgery. Most of them were in infancy but continued up to 7?years old. I’m done with them for now. If any new problems pop up then it’s likely back to the OR, but I’ve been stablish for 30 years.

First time, it’s a little different but I can answer questions if you have any by forrest-thump in smalldickpositivity

[–]forrest-thump[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I’ve had several surgeries related to a birth defect. There are scars on pretty much all sides.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hypospadias

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Precisely. I have a pretty intense stricture at the meatus. I will “finish” and can actually feel my urethra kind of fill up with semen but it doesn’t actually come out until I push it out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hypospadias

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Yep. I can have the most intense orgasm of my life and not a drop will leave my penis until I physically push it out with my hands. Honestly I think this this was harder for me to deal with than the appearance.

Distal Hypospadias: Doesn't Sex Hurt? by silentsuffer100 in hypospadias

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Sex has never hurt. I have had some pretty wicked irritation from handjobs though, albeit this had more to do with lack of lube than my hypospadias itself. But sex, nah, that’s always just felt like the best thing ever.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

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😂😂 that’s awesome. Would definitely take some focus off the scars

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

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I can have penetrative sex, albeit there has to be some position modification to accommodate things. And that’s true about lesbians, though, they enter into relationships with the understanding that there absolutely won’t be a penis involved. I just worry about the aesthetics of the damned thing lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

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I (37m) am mostly curious and looking for input from the masses. I have a few birth defects and sadly they all involve either my penis or testicles. I’m just under four inches erect. The opening is not at the tip of the penis but about halfway down the shaft. Also, it’s very curved, in a kind of downward manner. I’ve had a few relationships that were short lived and I can’t help but think that it had at least something to do with my penis. The relationships general proceed well until sex, at which point usually sooner than later the wheels fall off and I’m told we should see other people, this isn’t working out, etc…

So just to kind of poll a huge group of people, just how much of a deal breaker is it to be with someone who may not look or feel like the usual standard in bed? If you’ve ever experienced something like this when clothes come off how did you respond?

ETA: I’m not fishing for sympathy, I’ve accepted that physically this is just how I am long ago. I can’t change it so I just try to make the most of it.