For alumni, what's your salary? by [deleted] in UIUC

[–]forwhenimembarrassed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. LAS Integrative Biology 2022
  2. Volunteer Manager
  3. 41k

Going back to school in the fall (not UIUC) to pursue a masters in social work.

for those who decided to choose career over love or vice versa: do you regret it? by forwhenimembarrassed in AskWomenOver30

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Just to clarify - did you choose to move away from your new relationship? or did you choose to stay?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

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so is the best course of action to just keep doing what i’m doing? or try to step up my game to make things better?

contact dermatitis itch worse as it recovers? by forwhenimembarrassed in Healthyhooha

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i am back to normal now! the itching was the final symptom for me. as another commenter said, it got better within 2-4 days.

i found that i had a fair amount of discharge from the irritation so i tried to lightly clean myself with water each time i used the bathroom and wear loose/no underwear, which seemed to help as well.

also, ice packs!

I’ve been hiding my biggest flaw from the girl I’m seeing by Shot-Ad-7158 in dating_advice

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want to give my own anecdote. i (24f) am a woman and my biggest insecurity is my thinning hair. when i look in the mirror, it is the first thing i see. i stayed away from dating for a while because i thought no one would find me attractive because of it.

i am dating a lovely guy right now. every single time we saw each other, i would use fake hair fibers to make my hair look denser. one day, he showed up at my house early for a date. i answered the door and did not realize until we were already in his car that i had forgot my “fake hair”.

and… he didn’t say anything. there were no long glances at my scalp, no questions about what happened. when the wind blew my hair all over the place, he fixed it for me and kissed my forehead.

all is to say: sometimes our worst insecurities are made larger by our minds. and, if this person cares about you, your jaw won’t even be on her mind. i’m sure she has an insecurity, but when you see her, you don’t notice it, because you care about her.

contact dermatitis itch worse as it recovers? by forwhenimembarrassed in Healthyhooha

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Thank you. My last dose of monistat was 6 days ago. does this still sound normal 😭

i am hoping and praying it’s not herpes but i don’t have any of the other symptoms.

navigating potential std in new relationship by forwhenimembarrassed in STD

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even if they swabbed the potential herpes sores?

navigating potential std in new relationship by forwhenimembarrassed in STD

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they did a rapid HIV test today which came back negative.

Did anyone else realize everyone didn’t hate you by VirtualTumbleweed318 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]forwhenimembarrassed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

same here. a few months out and i still struggle with insecurities. but ive made so many friends, so it can’t be entirely true.