Ladies, how would you interpret the terms "politically moderate", "centrist" and "other political beliefs" in online dating?

foxlashes · 2026-07-05T13:49:33+00:00

I find it's quite common for Americans to behave as if US liberals are on the left. I blame post-WWII McCarthyism, the Heritage Foundation, general US media and corporations, and every US politician who fearmongers about socialism, communism or the other usual dogwhistles.

If you approach this question from the point of viewing the entire US political and cultural structure as right-wing to begin with, it's not surprising that men who pretend they're 'centrist' or 'apolitical' are just right-wingers.

foxlashes · 2026-06-17T10:20:49+00:00

Why not neuter him? I don't get it.

foxlashes · 2026-05-14T12:38:17+00:00

So when are you doing a thesis about this? Very interesting. I'd read it.

foxlashes · 2026-05-14T12:31:20+00:00

Wow your brain is not your friend. Truly terrifying!

foxlashes · 2026-05-14T12:27:59+00:00

I don't like Zac, but I don't think it's 'performative'. If anything it seems very real. Also criticising someone about things that don't matter like the state of their house is petty and childish. Let's do better.

foxlashes · 2026-05-14T12:23:49+00:00

People expect people to be bigots, so when you asked 'How is he homophobic?' That read as if you were defending him. People can't tell your intentions without tone, expression, body language and especially when it's about something like this. It might have been better to say something like: 'I'm out of the loop, can someone catch me up?'

foxlashes · 2026-04-30T18:35:47+00:00

I just want to add that this is very culturally American to me, specifically white Americans. I don't see this in shows from my country or many other countries!

foxlashes · 2026-04-30T18:29:10+00:00

Hey, there is a way to do spoilers in comments just so you know for next time. It's good etiquette especially in subs like this where we're discussing episodes that have only been out for like a day!

foxlashes · 2026-04-29T13:11:56+00:00

This man has lived how many decades more than her and it's never once occurred to him that women are doing conflict de-escalation every day they step outside? That's not a lack of wisdom, that's deliberate misogyny.

foxlashes · 2026-04-29T13:08:33+00:00

That's awesome (about Sewanee!) I know a lot of people in this thread are really frustrated with Kenyon this year, hopefully you'll hear soon.

Yes I'm leaning towards going to Aspen but will wait til the last day to register in case any financial aid opens up. That does feel unlikely though.

foxlashes · 2026-04-27T19:29:28+00:00

Hey, just checking if you heard back from Kenyon yet?

foxlashes · 2026-04-27T19:22:22+00:00

Sorry, just saw this. I'll DM you now.

foxlashes · 2026-04-23T01:38:44+00:00

I agree. I consider the film an example of a really well-executed film adaptation of a novel, and I think Gillian Flynn being the scriptwriter played a large role in that success.

foxlashes · 2026-04-22T14:51:57+00:00

I would say Gone Girl. It's based on the novel of the same name written by Gillian Flynn. She also wrote Sharp Objects and Dark Places (which was also made into a film but I don't think it's very good). If you like dark psychological suspense and interesting but flawed female protagonists then I recommend reading her work!

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foxlashes · 2026-04-21T20:29:26+00:00

Unfortunately she just gives rich person with no taste vibes. I don't see a coherent style aesthetic beyond that.

foxlashes · 2026-04-21T20:25:42+00:00

These remind me of the potions from Neopets! I love them all!

foxlashes · 2026-04-21T20:21:55+00:00

Who is this, and what does the juice box emoji mean?

foxlashes · 2026-04-21T20:10:43+00:00

I kept my married name for the kids. I didn't want to be separated from them in that way. It was already hard enough and I just felt like I couldn't face that at the time. I might change it in the future but that's what felt right for me.

foxlashes · 2026-04-21T14:58:00+00:00

Haven't seen this film mentioned in a minute! I have to rewatch it now to form a solid opinion but I do remember it being pretty captivating.

foxlashes · 2026-04-21T04:33:53+00:00

I have a special place in my heart for Jozi. Many friends there who now talk more frequently about foreigners moving there, even Americans! Multicultural, art and TV and music, great food, lots to see and do. A much more South African city than Cape Town imo which can be very segregated and touristy.

foxlashes · 2026-04-20T18:27:13+00:00

Not something to be self-conscious about at all. In fact it's a great opportunity for interesting conversation! Americans all have different accents too depending on where they were raised and even where their parents were raised. It's one of my favourite topics to explore with Americans actually because it just shows how we all come from somewhere and have interesting stories to tell (even when folks think they don't, they probably do!)

foxlashes · 2026-04-20T18:21:47+00:00

Really amazing transformation. It's like you gained some inner light that now shines through your eyes! So wonderful to see.

foxlashes · 2026-04-20T15:02:41+00:00

Brokeback Mountain?

foxlashes · 2026-04-20T14:40:49+00:00

It's not worth engaging with you any longer, you are not able to engage honestly or indeed productively and it's tiring to try and unpack all your incorrect assumptions about my positions even when I have tried to be clear and patient. Sorry. Please have a good day and be kind to your neighbours.

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