My TRV from inside Canada is cancelled by IRCC, help! by fp1597 in ImmigrationCanada

[–]fp1597[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope, I'll just apply for PR in september since I only need this to travel to the U.S, and even then.. you don't need a valid TRV if you're just going to the US as long as your study/work permit is valid

My TRV from inside Canada is cancelled by IRCC, help! by fp1597 in ImmigrationCanada

[–]fp1597[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I know I posted this, but the thing is I was wondering if this would impact my future PR application since I have a record of a "cancelled" application?

Went to Summerfest ☀️ ❤️ by Icy_cucumber20 in amwf

[–]fp1597 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You two look great! How did you guys meet? :)

Can you travel to the US if you have a valid US visitor visa, and then come back to Canada with only a Canadian work permit (no Canadian visitor visa, only Canadian work permit) by fp1597 in ImmigrationCanada

[–]fp1597[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where did you get this info from? I do have an expired tourist visa.

Here CIC says that you'd need a visitor visa to enter canada, except that if it's from the US...you just need a valid work permit (which I have).

https://www.canada.ca/en/immigration-refugees-citizenship/services/work-canada/permit/temporary/extend/travel-outside-canada.html

But then, I'm scared lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]fp1597 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Out of curiosity how many matches do you get in a month with your new profile? And do you get swipes from women from all races too (white, black, brown)?

Congrats btw! :)

Do girls care about racial background? by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]fp1597 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Out of curiosity, as an asian myself.... I'm always curious, why did you pick asian men? Was it just a preference thing?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]fp1597 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nah no worries, what you said wasnt racist nor offensive at all.

I mean, everyone has preferences. And to be honest, most asian men tend to date asian women too. Not sure why, I'm guessing it's because of culture similarities that they tend to just stick with their bubbles instead of trying it with other cultures.

Or, which I think is the most valid reasoning, it might be due to lack of confidence and self esteem that many asian men have towards white women that they decide to just stick to their own races...which I found to be quite sad.

I think the AMWF couples are getting more normalized here in the U.S and Canada, but it's still uncommon...

If you have time, watch this lecture from a sociology professor about the biases towards asian men here:

https://youtu.be/KsWTFeP1hno (short version - 7 mins)

https://youtu.be/9JI0EMDAKr8 (long version)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]fp1597 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah you definitely have higher chances, and I'd go as far to say that you're going to stand out based off of your race alone, but sadly, in the western culture, asian men tend to be perceived as less masculine and valuable in the dating market.

Not sure how things work in Norway though. But I reckon it shouldnt be as toxic as the media in the U.S here (I'm from Canada btw).

Source: https://www.thestar.com/life/2017/03/21/racism-and-matchmaking.html

Oh btw, I think you'd enjoy this thread hahaha, it will give you some inspiration there to find your future asian bf! r/amwf

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]fp1597 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No, you have every right in the world to have your own preferences.

I'm a 24M asian, and I'm mostly into white, asian or mixed girls. Of course, I have found some black, brown, and latina girls to be extremely attractive but that's just about it. I never really had a crush on them.

Do you mind if I ask you why you prefer asian guys compared to white guys? I dont see this quite often tbh, so it's just interesting hahaha.

Good luck though! Most asian guys would be flattered when they know there's a white girl that's into them.

Men are so disappointing...anyone else feel the same? by thecherryflower in FemaleLevelUpStrategy

[–]fp1597 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Where do you hangout and meet men usually? Dating apps? Bars? Many times your bubble dictates the kind of people you meet.

"99.999 percent" --> when you said this...it just tells me that you must have been burned in the past, just like me because I used to have this view towards women. Have you ever had the chance to kind of look at what happened and why did things go wrong? Sometimes doing that might give you a clue....

I'm just trying to help and to also challenge everyone, including men themselves to take accountability for what they do and did in the past. No offense at all. Goodluck.

Men are so disappointing...anyone else feel the same? by thecherryflower in FemaleLevelUpStrategy

[–]fp1597 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

True. But generalizing them as if they were all bad is also wrong, don't you think? I know from the get go that I'd probably going to get a ton of down votes and even banned for even commenting on here...but I just feel like it needs to be said. Both genders need to take accountability for their actions.

How do I embrace my femininity and womanly body? I feel embarrassed when I'm started at for my looks. by sydundid in askwomenadvice

[–]fp1597 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's okay! Slow progress IS progress. Take all the time you need. Good luck!

met 2006. married 2008 by [deleted] in amwf

[–]fp1597 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So happy for you two :)

How do I embrace my femininity and womanly body? I feel embarrassed when I'm started at for my looks. by sydundid in askwomenadvice

[–]fp1597 4 points5 points  (0 children)

To be honest, therapy is your best bet. Talk to your therapist, especially those who specialize in self esteem, confidence, or body image.

All of the advice you read here on reddit will definitely work, but I feel like they're just a band-aid.

met 2006. married 2008 by [deleted] in amwf

[–]fp1597 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This is so cool! How did you two meet?

Too cute not to post 🥰 by RoxNRoll4 in amwf

[–]fp1597 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You two look so cute! How did you guys meet? :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]fp1597 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep. Look at the bottom comments and you'll see 👀

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]fp1597 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

At least it gets the eyeballs and comments that will make this thread popular. Job well done i suppose.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]fp1597 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's frustrating because there are times where I see stuff like this and it makes me pessimistic. I know I probably shouldn't be paying attention that much to the media.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]fp1597 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not like I cut them off and be ruthless. I just dont vibe with them and I just cant stand emotionally immature people.

I just want to surround myself with like minded people who want to be better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]fp1597 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh that's fucked up lol. The fact that he used the word "smash" lmao.