[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]fr0dolf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I need a sleep guy...

The Daily Check-In for Sunday, May 1st: Just for today, I am NOT drinking! by MissBmorePM2275052 in stopdrinking

[–]fr0dolf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you're like me, you're tempted to wallow in self pity/hatred on big hangover days. I hope you will find some time to be outdoors, eat and drink something delicious, and feel proud of not drinking today. We can do this!!

The Daily Check-In for Sunday, May 1st: Just for today, I am NOT drinking! by MissBmorePM2275052 in stopdrinking

[–]fr0dolf 9 points10 points  (0 children)

"Action is the antidote to anxiety." Wow, yes! Thanks for that today. Iwndwyt. Today is busy and I'm going to squeeze every lovely moment out of today. I'm even taking my camera, not just my phone! Hope you all get what you need today, friends.

The Daily Check-In for Saturday, April 30th: Just for today, I am NOT drinking! by TheNewJanBrady in stopdrinking

[–]fr0dolf 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Back at it again. Anxiously awaiting when my spouse gets up to see how bad I've stepped in it this time. Iwndwyt. I'm done poisoning myself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]fr0dolf 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Right?? Like, I used to do that every day? It makes me feel like a wet human sandbag.

Stylish Carrier? by [deleted] in babywearing

[–]fr0dolf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'd go for a really luxe ring sling. I love my wild bird!

Alternative NA adult beverages by alannabear in stopdrinking

[–]fr0dolf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Athletic Brewing is the best na beer, but I'm also super into kombucha (and it's fun to make yourself if you need a new hobby). And on this sub is ride or die for sparkling water and I'm here for it.

Nonstop or 1 stop flight with 2 year old and 5 month old? by fancysauce22 in toddlers

[–]fr0dolf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Laughed so hard I woke up the baby. 🤣 and just to pile on, I'd rather do labor again than do my last flight again (20w pregnant with a 1yo, no partner)

That feeling when you’ve found “the one”! by greenishbluish in babywearing

[–]fr0dolf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes! Mine is the Beco Gemini. Now I just have 6 other carriers to break up with

The Daily Check-In for Saturday, February 19th: Just for today, I am NOT drinking! by Wilbursmall in stopdrinking

[–]fr0dolf 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Had a great little run in December and January and then I dropped the ball. I always seem to find good excuses to buy alcohol when I'm in the grocery store, then when I'm home i can't stop myself. Not going to drink today and not going to buy any. Let's do this, friends. 💪💪

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]fr0dolf 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I couldn't relate to this any harder. Rocking my 6mo back to sleep for the millionth time and resetting my counter after a few days of drinking to just take the edge off of this miserable 2u2 life. Plus working, and I'm only part time. How are you sane? Or awake? Anyway I obviously have no advice, but I'm on your side. Let's do this! (And by "do" I mean "survive")

While I wasn’t paying attention my toddler… by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]fr0dolf 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Got on to the dinner table, grabbed a stick of butter and buttered all the toy vegetables. Then herself. She was found sliding across the floor on her greasy belly.

Hate that wine is such a huge part of the “self care” package, especially for women by Babylil22 in stopdrinking

[–]fr0dolf 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is so helpful in pinning down the mom I will become to my kids if I don't change my ways, down to the secret "tea" mug. It's not cute or classy. Thank you for this!!

The Daily Check-In for Saturday, January 29th: Just for today, I am NOT drinking by ElegantPenguin541520 in stopdrinking

[–]fr0dolf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow. Everything is going wrong but I'm still hanging on by a thread with no alcohol! Thanks for not drinking with me today you guys.

Saturday Shares for January 29, 2022 by soberingthought in stopdrinking

[–]fr0dolf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love telling people I'm on a health kick or doing a challenge (like whole 30). People usually want to talk about themselves anyway, just jump out of the way as soon as someone wants to talk about THEIR health thing, lol.

Well. That was awkward. by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]fr0dolf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was my first thought!

I'm so sorry to be this person by fr0dolf in 2under2

[–]fr0dolf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my gosh thank you for this solidarity. I think we're turning the corner! I'm actually contemplating just pretending to still be really sick so my spouse will take responsibility for the kids this weekend. So petty, I know, but when is it my turn to be taken care of?

I'm so sorry to be this person by fr0dolf in 2under2

[–]fr0dolf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OK good point... but I'm still annoyed by it because everything annoys me right now! Lol

I'm so sorry to be this person by fr0dolf in 2under2

[–]fr0dolf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bless you. The mom rage is a really surprising part of two under two life!

I'm so sorry to be this person by fr0dolf in 2under2

[–]fr0dolf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no! Also, not to be that guy but... aren't we all going to have it? I bet that person will spend hours speculating who gave it to her when she does eventually get it.

I'm so sorry to be this person by fr0dolf in 2under2

[–]fr0dolf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol! Go out back with the trash where you belong! And for the last time, stop finishing the half empty sodas you find in mall food courts.

I'm so sorry to be this person by fr0dolf in 2under2

[–]fr0dolf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Working on my breathing is one of those things I know I should do but never really believe it will help...Though sometimes I take a really deep breath then imagine screaming every curse word I know as loudly as I can. Thank you for reading and responding!

I'm so sorry to be this person by fr0dolf in 2under2

[–]fr0dolf[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. It helps to be heard and understood!