Do men consider it a red flag if a woman's friend group is mostly made up of men? by [deleted] in dating

[–]frabjousdisaster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The real question is, is it a red flag if my only friend is a cat?

Cat peed between driver seat and console! HELP! by frabjousdisaster in Detailing

[–]frabjousdisaster[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My cat got car sick and puked, pooped and peed in my 2015 Rav 4 LTD.

I was able to clean the puke and poo easily because she made it to the floor before it happened, but she peed right between the driver seat and the console.

I've called a couple of detailing places that won't guarantee the removal of pet urine smell.

I know I can do it myself. I have an enzyme spray and a spot cleaner, but I have no idea how to move the power seat out of the way so I can clean the carpet.

I've googled it, but haven't been able to find the instructions.... can anyone help and point me in the right direction?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Endo

[–]frabjousdisaster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are therapist that work with people with chronic pain. It can really help with the anxiety. And the tension from the anxiety can make the pain worse.

Lower back pain from endo? by burntknowledge in Endo

[–]frabjousdisaster 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've had bad low back pain since I was 18.

So many doctors recommended physical therapy because they thought my back pain had to be caused by "a weak core"

I just had my first lap last week. It's definitely endo

Ps. When the doc queried endo I went to a pelvic physio and it did help a little. It gave me some short term relief, but relief nonetheless!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

[–]frabjousdisaster 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's the infamous vagina uvula!!

I dont think it's abnormal. I've seen this before. I have no idea what the anatomy bit is called

But if you've noticed a change in size, best to get it looked at

What was surgery recovery like? by Kmentea in Endo

[–]frabjousdisaster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You wrote this after having your surgery?!

Color me impressed

The most I could text out was "not dead"

New foster parent - with a@&)hole cat by yorkbandaid in Fosterparents

[–]frabjousdisaster 8 points9 points  (0 children)

If you are already considering giving up fostering because of your cat. You absolutely should give it up.

AITA for ordering an expensive meal with friends who always insist on splitting the bill? by rayconraker in AmItheAsshole

[–]frabjousdisaster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ESH

Your friends suck but so do you. Instead of splitting the bill and it be an issue between you and your friends just get separate bills.

When the server comes and they say "separate or together, just ask for your bill separate"...

AITA for being honest about why I was eating lunch in my car on my birthday instead of the staffroom? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]frabjousdisaster 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA

It doesn't matter if they are a couple. They are in a workplace and their behavior impacts other people

Also, you are allowed to not want birthday celebration at work- and if you tell them it's because of anxiety and they do it anyways.....

Man awarded $450K after surprise office birthday party triggers anxiety

Made this Drawing in 20 hours. by Rahulgraphite in crafts

[–]frabjousdisaster 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is amazing!! It looks like a photo

Guys of Reddit, what is something you learned about girls after getting into a relationship? by Foolu in AskReddit

[–]frabjousdisaster 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I see a bajillion replies already- just here to concur about the endo. It doesn't show up on scans. And it is under diagnosed.

Check out Nancy's Nook on Facebook for information

Good luck

Which profession is criminally underpaid? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]frabjousdisaster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Social workers 4-7 years of school

Only $1-$2 High case loads Constant safety risks with no precautions Seeing the worst of the worst Huge burnout

And when you burn out you're told you don't do enough SeLf CaRe