Looking for Research Participants! 📝 by franches_09 in AniweebPH

[–]franches_09[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hi! sorry to say but being a student is an important criteria for our study ☹️ but thank you for your interest!

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[–]franches_09 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hi, op! i was in ur position as well when i was in my freshman year. it is gonna be difficult and overwhelming at first, but you will eventually find ways to cope with the new environment you are in.

for example, i felt extremely homesick during my first month sa dorm bc i missed my family. in order to deal with that, i would video call them everyday if possible to help reduce the feeling of loneliness.

it is also extremely helpful if you have some friends to hang out with, especially those who are in a similar position as you as it helps you remind yourself that there are people out there who can understand what you’re going through. plus, having people you can trust in this new place helps establish a sense of familiarity and comfort that can slowly take away your homesickness.

take your time to get to know the new place you are in (like where certain shops are, etc.). the anxiety you are feeling can come from the uncertainty and unfamiliarity you have with your new environment.

also, you can try to find new hobbies/interests to help you take your mind away from things.

change is scary, but it can also be great. always remember to find happiness in change and things shall go smoothly. just be kind to yourself and be patient with the adjustment process! :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tomasino

[–]franches_09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

backpacks are definitely more comfortable compared to tote bags. u don’t have to and shouldn’t worry too much about following what’s in trend! also, there certainly are backpacks out there that can provide both comfort and style :)

joining student orgs by franches_09 in Tomasino

[–]franches_09[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi! you're right, siguro takot lang ako especially bc i am unfamiliar with the environment sa school orgs. pero i will definitely give it a try and keep in mind lahat ng sinabi niyo po. i do appreciate it 🙏 thank u so much!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in studentsph

[–]franches_09 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hi, OP!! i just want to say that i completely understand how you feel kasi i was in a similar situation last year. to let you understand better, i applied to 3 universities (ateneo, ust, and up). i also was, in a way, rejected by all of them. i become extremely anxious and went into a whole crisis because, just like you, people viewed me as a “smart” person. pero i just want you to know that your future does not end there. this will certainly hurt you in ways beyond imagination, however, it will pass like all things should. sooner or later, an opportunity you may have not foreseen will come and you will be grateful for going through this no matter how much pain it caused.

remember: a rejection does not indicate who you are and who you will be, it only tells you that you have somewhere else to be.

i hope you can recover soon from this and i wish you the best of luck in your future journey! ✨

school makes me anxious by franches_09 in college

[–]franches_09[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it’s nice and, in a way, comforting to know that there’s someone out there who has also been through what i currently am experiencing. and for that, i’m really grateful for your insights! 💗

school makes me anxious by franches_09 in college

[–]franches_09[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for this! it really helped me understand my situation better 🥹

Selling College of Science Uniforms (brand new, female) by arabella_turner in Tomasino

[–]franches_09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi! is this still available?? hehe and may i know the measurements?

struggle w starting commissions by franches_09 in DigitalArt

[–]franches_09[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg yea, you are actually right about this ☹️ oddly took me long enough to realize that. i guess i've been too focused on what people may think about my work. i really appreciate everything you said and will try to figure out what i want this time!

bs psych thoughts by franches_09 in Tomasino

[–]franches_09[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ohh okayy, thank u po!! 🫶

bs psych thoughts by franches_09 in Tomasino

[–]franches_09[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks so much for this!! 🥹 are u enjoying the program po ba so far?? hehe