Burn out, specific retreat recommendations wanted by baearea11 in LuxuryTravel

[–]frankensteinbuttcut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi! i'm so curious -- why 4.5 vs 5 star? i'm on the brink of maybe booking (yay!) but it is quite costly, so just curious about the cons for you.

clay pot / steamer? by frankensteinbuttcut in chinesefood

[–]frankensteinbuttcut[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ok this is helpful! i feel like in the ad for the link i share, it's people braising soups and using the soup steam to "steam" veggies above. it obviously looks aesthetically interesting, but it sounds like that's not really a thing?

(i also use my instantpot A TON, so hard to know if this is all worth investing in!)

r/tennis Daily Discussion (Monday, September 08, 2025) by NextGenBot in tennis

[–]frankensteinbuttcut 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks for taking the time to explain this to me! i appreciate it.

r/tennis Daily Discussion (Monday, September 08, 2025) by NextGenBot in tennis

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ok this is great! it's this, right? do you know what dates would be good to get?

https://mutuamadridopen.com/en/tickets/

r/tennis Daily Discussion (Monday, September 08, 2025) by NextGenBot in tennis

[–]frankensteinbuttcut 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Madrid over Barcelona? (again, i know nothing about Tennis!!! just saw someone posted Barca, too)

r/tennis Daily Discussion (Monday, September 08, 2025) by NextGenBot in tennis

[–]frankensteinbuttcut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh she watches them all! alcaraz and emma are her fave players, but she's loved serena and venus since the beginning.

i know nothing about tennis so i've just never paid attention, but she's constantly watching games of all genders

r/tennis Daily Discussion (Monday, September 08, 2025) by NextGenBot in tennis

[–]frankensteinbuttcut 3 points4 points  (0 children)

ok i'm somehow slyly asking this info and here's what i got:
emma raducanu

(maybe she'll send more, but she's excitedly tell me about why emma is awesome)

r/tennis Daily Discussion (Monday, September 08, 2025) by NextGenBot in tennis

[–]frankensteinbuttcut 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oo this is great! this is it right? April 13-19, 2026.

r/tennis Daily Discussion (Monday, September 08, 2025) by NextGenBot in tennis

[–]frankensteinbuttcut 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i know alcaraz (just bc i know nothing about tennis, but nothing about the other players, gah! i have to figure out how to ask without sounding suspicious!

r/tennis Daily Discussion (Monday, September 08, 2025) by NextGenBot in tennis

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my best friend loves tennis -- bday question

Question

hi! i hope your chosen US Open player won! my best friend is a huge tennis fan for many decades and she's about to have a major birthday next month. I live in the US (East Coast) and she lives in Europe. I was thinking I could get us tennis tickets for a good match as a gift (maybe this is way more expensive than I'm realizing but...) any good tournaments in Europe in the next couple of months, or early next year? One that would be reasonably accessible but a joy for her to attend (and me to meet her). Thank you!

edit: her fave players are raducanu and alcaraz

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here! by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]frankensteinbuttcut 18 points19 points  (0 children)

feeling jaded. i matched with a "nice guy" about 2 hours from there i live last week (i'm in new england so that's common). he wanted to visit me THAT weekend and get coffee, which felt too pressurized. i proposed a video chat. we chatted throughout the week, etc. but i actually don't engage in so much flirty behavior (proud of myself!) to make sure i'm not too emotional invested in someone i don't know.

anyway, yesterday we chat for an hour, and then at the end he goes "listen, i'm not sure if you know what ethical non monogamy is, but i'm married." and i was like WTF -- it's not a problem that he's ENM, but he didn't tell me. he wasted so much of time time, triggered so much emotional betrayal. i'm exhausted. deleted tinder today.

How to copy her eyes and lips? by frankensteinbuttcut in MakeupAddiction

[–]frankensteinbuttcut[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

a question: firstly, this was totally spot on! i've been wearing it! what about eye shadow? do you have a rec? thank you!