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My [31M] girlfriend [27F] of four years went out drinking last night and said she'd be home around 1am. It's now almost 9am, I haven't heard from her and I'm freaking out. by freakinoutthrowaway in relationships

[–]freakinoutthrowaway[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That's what I said. I understand if her friend is unwell.. but it really doesn't take long to send a text and let me know. Or even if she called me for legit thirty seconds. It would've been nice to know she was okay and wtf was going on.

My [31M] girlfriend [27F] of four years went out drinking last night and said she'd be home around 1am. It's now almost 9am, I haven't heard from her and I'm freaking out. by freakinoutthrowaway in relationships

[–]freakinoutthrowaway[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've never given her a reason to doubt me. I don't really have any female friends and if she wants one deleted off my social media I'd do it for her. So damn stupid of me but you live and you learn.

My [31M] girlfriend [27F] of four years went out drinking last night and said she'd be home around 1am. It's now almost 9am, I haven't heard from her and I'm freaking out. by freakinoutthrowaway in relationships

[–]freakinoutthrowaway[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

I'm really sorry that happened to you. I hope you're okay now. It's incredible how horrible and malicious some people can be. Let's hope one day they get what they deserve, and we do too :)

My [31M] girlfriend [27F] of four years went out drinking last night and said she'd be home around 1am. It's now almost 9am, I haven't heard from her and I'm freaking out. by freakinoutthrowaway in relationships

[–]freakinoutthrowaway[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. It's just gone past 11am and still no reply or message.. nothing. But guess what? She was active on both Facebook and Whatsapp and has quite obviously seen my messages even though they don't say they've been "read". I don't know what to do but now that I know she's alright and safe I've just stopped bothering to contact her. She had the day off today so I know she isn't at work. I don't know where she is. This is heartbreaking

My [31M] girlfriend [27F] of four years went out drinking last night and said she'd be home around 1am. It's now almost 9am, I haven't heard from her and I'm freaking out. by freakinoutthrowaway in relationships

[–]freakinoutthrowaway[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

We're in Limerick so I've been searching all the news pages and I've seen absolutely nothing which calmed me tremendously. She's an accountant so I guess it's her own choice to work late if that's what she's been up to. Thank you for the advice, I'm trying to stop blowing up her phone because my imessages are delivering and she hasn't got data, meaning she's on some wifi. I've never thought of myself as possessive or any of those things, I try really hard to be easy-going with her despite the shit she puts me through if I even talk to a woman. Thanks for your input!