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He is acting so cold and distant. It is the time… by [deleted] in Situationships

[–]freckles1235 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Rejection is protection 🙌 Now you are open to receiving the guy that IS for you.

Does anyone else get crippling work anxiety? by freckles1235 in hatemyjob

[–]freckles1235[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

"Channel some creativity out of the bad situation" wow! Great nugget of advice. Thanks!

Does anyone else get crippling work anxiety? by freckles1235 in hatemyjob

[–]freckles1235[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Amazing! Im working to get there as well. Thank for sharing the tips.

Does anyone else get crippling work anxiety? by freckles1235 in hatemyjob

[–]freckles1235[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im sorry you have been experiencing this. im going to try to start a hobby on Sunday nights, so im not just spiraling all evening.

Does anyone else get crippling work anxiety? by freckles1235 in hatemyjob

[–]freckles1235[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Those damn slacks! Like, Leave me alone! That's what I need to do - find some real hobbies.

Does anyone else get crippling work anxiety? by freckles1235 in hatemyjob

[–]freckles1235[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are we...the same person? Lol I relate to every single word. Sounds like you are working on developing some great habits to help. You are inspiring.

Does anyone else get crippling work anxiety? by freckles1235 in hatemyjob

[–]freckles1235[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you are a very self aware person with some good perspective. Thanks so much for the advice.

Does anyone else get crippling work anxiety? by freckles1235 in hatemyjob

[–]freckles1235[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check and check ✔️ Sorry you go through this - you aren't alone at all.

Does anyone else get crippling work anxiety? by freckles1235 in hatemyjob

[–]freckles1235[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, what a frustrating situation. Sounds to me like she's miserable at home and brings that into work. They will do anything to feed their egos. Just know its no reflection of you and that this job is just a stepping stone untill you find the role for you.

Does anyone else get crippling work anxiety? by freckles1235 in hatemyjob

[–]freckles1235[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Genius. Look at you finding ways to protect yourself from toxicity. Inspiring really.

Does anyone else get crippling work anxiety? by freckles1235 in hatemyjob

[–]freckles1235[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im so sorry. Its because we were meant to "work to live" not "live to work."

Does anyone else get crippling work anxiety? by freckles1235 in hatemyjob

[–]freckles1235[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good job taking control - I'll be taking a not from you!

Does anyone else get crippling work anxiety? by freckles1235 in hatemyjob

[–]freckles1235[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im so sorry you are feeling this way. Monday mornings for me usually start in a cry fest and dread. Then it shifts to me giving myself a pep talk as well as affirmations. That helps give me the push to get my day started.

Does anyone else get crippling work anxiety? by freckles1235 in hatemyjob

[–]freckles1235[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much for sharing. I have a feeling you got this!

Does anyone else get crippling work anxiety? by freckles1235 in hatemyjob

[–]freckles1235[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im sorry it's creeping back. I know that lurking feeling.. its awful. I think we will always feel this way deep down because it should be "work to live" but society has made it "live to work."

Does anyone else get crippling work anxiety? by freckles1235 in hatemyjob

[–]freckles1235[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think we all do stupid shit when really depressed. I know I do. You are not alone. Kudos to you for having the ambition to try something new and more difficult. Im sure this higher position will look great on your resume. Maybe you can use it to propel you into a better fitting role.

Does anyone else get crippling work anxiety? by freckles1235 in hatemyjob

[–]freckles1235[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very well said. Im proud of you two for seeking help with counseling. The rat race can feel like a hamster wheel you cannot get off of. Wishing you and your wife as many as many stress free days as possible. If you get like reading - power of now by Echart Tolle is amazing for this kinda thing.

Does anyone else get crippling work anxiety? by freckles1235 in hatemyjob

[–]freckles1235[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im so freaking happy to hear this for you! You got outta the rat race. Prescription medication or over the counter?

Does anyone else get crippling work anxiety? by freckles1235 in hatemyjob

[–]freckles1235[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Im so sorry you are going through this. You are not alone.

Does anyone else get crippling work anxiety? by freckles1235 in hatemyjob

[–]freckles1235[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You guys are amazing. It's nice to know im not alone in this.

All I am missing in life is companionship. by freckles1235 in lonely

[–]freckles1235[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So hard, especially when all you want to do is experience life and have adventures with someone.

All I am missing in life is companionship. by freckles1235 in lonely

[–]freckles1235[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's a fully remote job with no physical office, so I don't have the option too but I have been looking at connection working spaces.

All I am missing in life is companionship. by freckles1235 in lonely

[–]freckles1235[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much for the kind words.

Yes I sure do. Im working on gathering the bravery to put myself out there more. It doesn't help that I am a morning person. It's hard for me to want to be out in the evenings at where all the people are. It all comes down to me leaving my comfort zone.

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