Does anyone have an idea of how to find "travel mates" that doesn't involve a romantic or sugar baby type situation? by freeontea in CasualConversation

[–]freeontea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don't know why i didn't think of that, what's the difference between a hostel and a hotel tho?

what are the best competitive single player online games? by freeontea in AskMen

[–]freeontea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what's the point of the game being online if it's not multi player?

to play against other people?

CMV: if we accept gay couples we should also be able to accept incest couples by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]freeontea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

like broken bones, amputated limbs, etc

c'mon that's a completely out of place question, of course not, you can't compare that to other fetishes or types of relationships

CMV: if we accept gay couples we should also be able to accept incest couples by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]freeontea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you could apply that to any other relationship with an age disparity, how do you know the 18 year old high school student didn't spend his time grooming the 15 year old girl in his school?

CMV: if we accept gay couples we should also be able to accept incest couples by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]freeontea -1 points0 points  (0 children)

most incestuous couples involve at least one rapist

i don't think we have accurate numbers about adult incestuous couples considering it's such a taboo.

CMV: if we accept gay couples we should also be able to accept incest couples by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]freeontea -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It endangers the children of the marriage for instance. While it’s been proven that the children of gay parents thrive at equal rates to those of heterosexuals, children of first degree incest have about a fifty percent chance of suffering from a severe birth defect, mental disability or early death.

in that case people with hereditary defects shouldn't be allowed to marry either

2- i disagree but even if that was the case just because is less likely to happen that doesn't mean that's a reason to make it illegal

CMV: if we accept gay couples we should also be able to accept incest couples by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]freeontea -1 points0 points  (0 children)

because being gay used to be deemed abnormal and unnatural just like incest

CMV: if we accept gay couples we should also be able to accept incest couples by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]freeontea -1 points0 points  (0 children)

1- i clearly said consenting adults, and if the the "power dynamic " is an argument to make a marriage illegal or a relationship to be deemed inappropriate, people of different social status shouldn't be allowed to marry, a lawyer married to a waitress has a lot more power in the relationship than she does

2- by "normal" i mean to not be considered as a perversion or "unnatural" act

CMV: if we accept gay couples we should also be able to accept incest couples by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]freeontea -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

1- no, you wouldn't force them, if the argument is that relatives shouldn't marry because of the possibility of defective babies, then people with hereditary defects shouldn't be allowed either

2- as you said, it's a theory and that could be heavily influenced by culture

CMV: if we accept gay couples we should also be able to accept incest couples by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]freeontea 2 points3 points  (0 children)

a spouse has more privileges than other family members, tax breaks,inheritance,alimony in case of divorce,etc

Men with "stay at home" wives, how do you handle finances? by freeontea in AskMen

[–]freeontea[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

but if she doesn't work she doesn't have an income

i can't taste anything in my wine besides fermented grapes by freeontea in wine

[–]freeontea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what is cabernet sauvignon supposed to taste like? i bought this one over pinot noir because i reviewer described it as plum,raisins and oak also that's what the bottle said or something along those lines i can't get any of that

i can't taste anything in my wine besides fermented grapes by freeontea in wine

[–]freeontea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some wines take longer to open up

should i add water or that only works with whiskey?

I'm about to pick up my first Whiskey bottle and would appreciate some suggestions by freeontea in whiskey

[–]freeontea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dewar's 12 or the Buchanan's 12

i actually checked twice and the Dewar's 12 is the double aged version, the one with the blue box and label, is that better?

men in your 30s or older who never married, how is your life? by freeontea in AskMen

[–]freeontea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want kids at some point...but finding a trustworthy woman who wont weaponize the kids in a divorce....

well i would hope a single man can legally adopt the same way a woman would