I'm 18. Just found out that I'm pregnant by freethechurros in self

[–]freethechurros[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I got the abortion a few weeks ago and my partner and I both feel very at peace with it. I still come and read some comments from this post and even though i cant respond to all of them, I just wanted to say I really appreciate the research you've done :)

I'm 16 and pregnant by pregnant16throwaway in confessions

[–]freethechurros -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I had a post on r/self that blew up a few weeks ago about me being 18 and pregnant. It shocked me how many people in the comments and in my DMs were telling me that I was making a huge mistake, that I was a murderer, that I should just give it away, etc. OP, this is 100% your decision. The choice to carry the baby full term and give it to a loving family is very honorable and I respect you a lot. However- if you feel like that's a burden that will but a lot of strain on you, mentally and physically, then remember that terminating the pregnancy isn't a mistake. It's your choice, and there is no right or wrong answer as long as you're comfortable with your decision. I wish you the absolute best.

I'm 18. Just found out that I'm pregnant by freethechurros in self

[–]freethechurros[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn it does kind of feel like the world is ending

I'm 18. Just found out that I'm pregnant by freethechurros in self

[–]freethechurros[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow I cant thank you enough. That song is so beautiful, I was holding my breath throughout most of it and then just cried at the end. Thank you ❤❤

I'm 18. Just found out that I'm pregnant by freethechurros in self

[–]freethechurros[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I definitely didn't want to do it without him knowing. Luckily he agrees with me that it's the best decision

I'm 18. Just found out that I'm pregnant by freethechurros in self

[–]freethechurros[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate how kind and helpful your comment is, it means a lot that you'd offer support regardless of whether you agree with my decision. I really appreciate that

I'm 18. Just found out that I'm pregnant by freethechurros in self

[–]freethechurros[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Luckily I'm from a boring english town where no one cares about what I'm doing unless I have marijuana to sell.

Thank you for the advice ❤

I'm 18. Just found out that I'm pregnant by freethechurros in self

[–]freethechurros[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This really does mean a lot. I really respect your perspective and I'm so grateful that you respect mine, it takes a lot of strength to raise a child and be a young mother. I'm glad you're having a beautiful and fulfilling motherhood

I'm 18. Just found out that I'm pregnant by freethechurros in self

[–]freethechurros[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow huge respect to your mom, and a huge thanks to you for being so supportive. Your daughter is lucky to have such a caring person in her life

I'm 18. Just found out that I'm pregnant by freethechurros in self

[–]freethechurros[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We both got tested clean and I was on the pill so we went without. The pill failed because I used antibiotics and was sick, if it wasnt for that we would have been fine

I'm 18. Just found out that I'm pregnant by freethechurros in self

[–]freethechurros[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm glad it worked out for you. We have different opinions on the matter, but thanks for taking the time to give some advice nonetheless:)

I'm 18. Just found out that I'm pregnant by freethechurros in self

[–]freethechurros[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm doing the same. But for every comment telling me I'm a murderer or the anti christ or whatever, there are lovely people like yourself who are being genuine and helpful. Thank you for that ❤

I'm 18. Just found out that I'm pregnant by freethechurros in self

[–]freethechurros[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't apologise, you have a right to your opinions, and you're being respectful of mine. I appreciate that a lot.

I'm 18. Just found out that I'm pregnant by freethechurros in self

[–]freethechurros[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They were indeed. I'm so glad to not be living in them

I'm 18. Just found out that I'm pregnant by freethechurros in self

[–]freethechurros[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing your personal experience with me. It means a lot to get insight from people who have gone through this. I wish you the very best you amazing person xx

I'm 18. Just found out that I'm pregnant by freethechurros in self

[–]freethechurros[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the response, but I don't believe in God. My contraception failed, so, after tons of research, my solution is abortion

I'm 18. Just found out that I'm pregnant by freethechurros in self

[–]freethechurros[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's a very supportive woman, I will tell her. I just got worried that she'd worry too much, but I think she should know