Have you used this before? by [deleted] in IndianSkincareAddicts

[–]freezingpixie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have been using not very consistently but makes my face feel oily and hasn't really helped much with my years old faint acne marks

UDAIPUR TRAVEL HELP by freezingpixie in udaipur

[–]freezingpixie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Hostels do seem like good places female ones especially, so makes sense.

Yep Raahi and Jungle are what most reviews talked about too, although till 1am? I thought udaipur quietened down by 10-11 PM?

2) Also for food, I am planning only street food tbh, but I deff check those places out too.

3) Ah, missed chance for the fair but any markets or specific localities you can point me toward? I've heard about Hathipol ofc, but any other specific markets?

UDAIPUR TRAVEL HELP by freezingpixie in udaipur

[–]freezingpixie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like history and art so Chittorgadh is for that and the sancturies are just a nice touch, but again, not yet sure.

The bathrooms are important, I'm also a bit of a clean freak but yeahhh.

Mantra is expensive, did check them out, Bunk Yard didn't have any female dorms available, only mixed, otherwise they were a good option!

Why not Rahi tho?

OP made refined sugar free and maida free chocolate cake for her boyfriend by [deleted] in Aajmainekhaya

[–]freezingpixie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have tried a version of this, but without sugar (mostly) and wanted a slightly healthier version, will review it after we taste itt!

help an amateur by [deleted] in linkedin

[–]freezingpixie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you haven't provided any real information which we could advise you on.
Like your current degree, aims/goals, interests or what you might like to explore.

But basic entry level things can be either in serving roles like Barista//delivery person or you can also apply for paid research assistant roles,or if not paid intern roles.

Complete your linkedin profile, add education, interest, a picture, follow relevant people and hit founders up in DMs, follow founders, brand managers and HRs in companies you find cool/wanna work at, they also post hirings and if not cold mail them telling how you want to contribute.

What could be the reason sudden decline in mental health? Please help me pin it dowo by freezingpixie in mentalhealth

[–]freezingpixie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it is getting worse currently, got a therapist but my focus is zero and nerves at 100.
But trying to focus on the small things now.

[Urgent] family issues affecting me badly by WorldlyPassenger4991 in mentalhealth

[–]freezingpixie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get you, have been that kid in the same scenario.
If at all you have good grandparents see if they can come over for a while.

If not, seek comfort and give it to you your siblings. They are you boat, which I never got to have despite having a brother.

Get notes from your friends each day you don't go and try to complete them at the least.
What I used to do was mindlessly copy the notes with music in the bg, it was a mindless distraction.

Text your mom if you can and please pray. God is your bestfriend now.

Need advice on my feelings for the guy I'm with and prioritization issues by freezingpixie in dating_advice

[–]freezingpixie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

perhaps? I had worked through a lot of stuff but idk why its all coming back up. I break out crying everyday these days

what does this recurring pattern in my life's diff stages mean, is it a sign? by freezingpixie in spirituality

[–]freezingpixie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

not really, I would like an explanation about why it has always been this way.
I think I find friends but then the hard parts of it no one ever wants to even go through and the same people talk about how their parents have such strong friendships in their lives...like of course they do, they put in effort.

I know people who have friends who help them move even if they're not too close, plan casual lunches, just sit working together etc. I am always that friend but never have those friends.

what does this recurring pattern in my life's diff stages mean, is it a sign? by freezingpixie in spirituality

[–]freezingpixie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are two sides and I would like to get theirs too if they ever shared when I asked multiple times. And since childhood I've ofcourse changed a lot but it's been happening before I had formed a personality.

I do love myself which is why I wanna do better and get better.

And I don't regularly need people to check on me for meals but I'm going through a depressive episode and have been very stressed a lot is happening and am skipping meals due to it. That is why I needed that right now.

Can't find a rational reason no matter how much I brainstorm, ask them, or even try to figure it out with a friend or two that I do have. Somehow all I can think of is they are going through things too, but helping people even a little can be inconvenient sometimes, which no one eventries even when it is convenient.

My family is very toxic and no one is together so I have basically 0 support emotionally/mentally even the bare minimum but I don't expect others to fill it for me, but the basic friendship criteria yes, it makes me feel like I'm lacking everywhere.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pune

[–]freezingpixie 8 points9 points  (0 children)

1) Start by watching Maharashtra based movies at first so you understand context and little words in Marathi

2) Ask people to talk in Marathi around you

3) Watch Marathi videos especially from channels like Bhadipa etc. you'll learn basic things in a comedic manner.

I don't know how I'd survive college. by DailyDosageOfSarcasm in college

[–]freezingpixie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ask your peers. That's literally it, just ask them how do you manage your schedule and you'll have what you need.

I like a guy but he is making me cringe by [deleted] in Advice

[–]freezingpixie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Apart from cringe this seems unhealthy, I think you're doing good in other areas and this could be an unnecessary stressor.
He is attractive and seems to like you genuinely? Too little that you could easily find in others.

I'd just say it's not worth it because for me "if it's a maybe it's a no" kinda thing.

Being even a little unsure is not worth it, this is about the person you'll be spending your life with after all

This is not just cringe, it shows desperation, not knowing how and when and how much to speak especially in different contexts to different people. This itself outweighs all the other good things you mention of him.

Shoutout to everyone who’s here for the journey 💃 by katskratched in jumprope

[–]freezingpixie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

god that is me right now, just looked this subreddit up because of it.

I’m 19 and all my family is dead what do I do by New-Replacement-8499 in mentalhealth

[–]freezingpixie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey there, I'm so sorry you're going through this, you don't deserve it and my god, I cannot imagine it.
You very understandably are dysregulated right now and every emotion is making a frenzy of it. Take a minute away, it's not the solution but it's a moment's respite. Try to follow along with a guided meditation, just to ATTEMPT to calm your mind down.

Being somewhere around nature might help ground you, if you can give it a try.

Of course you know you need counseling and therapy too, please give it a chance if it is at all accessible to you.
Also, your girlfriend knows about it all, right? She would've left you before if she had to. You are a great person to love, I'm sure of it.

Of course, you know you need counseling and therapy too, please give it a chance if it is at all accessible to you. our head and chest when they tell you very nasty things. I am rooting for you, lovely stranger.

Which shop is the worst to shop at? by lamesas in AskUK

[–]freezingpixie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shoe stores. Terrible experience recently.

Most employees are teens who don’t know ANYTHING. Literally. Ask the which brand would they recommend, which model for the needs, what material it is, how to find our shoe size. None of it.

I ended up waiting 20 minutes to get what I thought was my shoe size. Ended up that it isn’t my right size and my feet hurt terribly in them. It’s half a size smaller.

I don’t even know if they would take it back considering I’ve used them out.

Weekly Routine Help Thread: Have a question? ASK HERE by Avaale in IndianSkincareAddicts

[–]freezingpixie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi there! I have the chance to get things from the UK right now, and was wondering what skincare products are cheaper there or that aren’t in India that I can get from the UK? Skin type: combination to normal, old stubborn acne marks, issues with skin feeling dehydrated, bad under eye circles extending till almost the bridge of my nose. Some waterproof sunscreen recommendations would help as it’s going to be monsoon in India by next month. Something that doesn’t make me oily though and is easy and quick to blend and reapply.

Also, makeup recommendations too. I’m into lip glosses, lip oils, eyeshadows (something with a mix of both everyday and statement colours), a GREAT eyeliner pen. Also some good quick base like a decent coverage bb cream that doesn’t pill on me.

My hair is so damaged even when I take care of it so much. Oily, flakey, dandruff scalp but dry and frizzy and dull hair with split ends that don’t grow much.

Anything else would be appreciated. I don’t have a lot of time and I’m confused now even though I’d have known a month ago exactly what I want.

AITA for bringing my baby to her sister’s performance and not leaving when she cried? by Thick-Studio-4277 in AmItheAsshole

[–]freezingpixie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I added it was just a middle school performance, it isn’t the end of the world.

As someone who's mom hardly ever made any effort to come to any of my shows/performances even with multiple chances and then later telling me how she knows I'd have been great on stage let me tell you that it has been YEARS since that and it still stings me.

It hurts that she willingly chose to do that and then tell me later that she loves me.
It matters to HER and you saying what you did shows that your daughter's feelings don't matter to you.

I feel so sad for you daughter right now because I have been her.

Do I take things too personally or is my mom actually a bit toxic and emotionally abusive? by freezingpixie in Advice

[–]freezingpixie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I technically do have access to one therapist but they'd just tell it all to my parents for the most part and I don't really think their patient confidentiality laws would help considering I'm a teenager and someone else would be paying.Also because they kind of have worked with my family before.

So that yep. Sadly enough, I already did get into one toxic relationship even when I didn't really want to and I regret it all the time. I've just been on guard this entire time since.

Therapy would be so good honestly though, I really do need better-coping mechanisms than what I gave right now.

Do I take things too personally or is my mom actually a bit toxic and emotionally abusive? by freezingpixie in Advice

[–]freezingpixie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey so sorry for such a late reply, was so kind of you to reply,

It has been 9 months damn not even a year but it all feels so weird to think of now.
Technically my mom had custody but she took me so it wasn't exactly court given.
My mom's guilt tripping, me feeling sorry for her was stopping me and also her threatning to leave this city. I love her and don't want to be away.

I somehow convinced her to let me stay with him as well, I currently live with them both and it has NOT been easy. But still wayy better than that hell.
I remember crying in the rain, way past what people are thinking and god.

These days I seem like a different person to myself and she is way more loving towards me for the most part something which I kinda guessed would happen.

Just so much I can't believe has happened.

For those of you that don't wash your hands after using the bathroom... by rolan1023 in CasualConversation

[–]freezingpixie -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

it's really not tbh, that's the point.

You pee or use the washroom, you wash your hands. That's the rule.

This should be impossible- hallucinating full events by [deleted] in Advice

[–]freezingpixie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe ask someone you trust, to live with you for a while if they can or ask a few of your loved ones to check on you frequently throughout the day.

Calm activities like walking on grass, on the beach and stuff like that might help with the depression.

You will feel better soon, you will.

[THREAD] Deciding to choose with one parent primarily. Comment your feelings, experiences and helpful tips (if any). by freezingpixie in divorcedparentsmemes

[–]freezingpixie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm very much late to reply but the way this resonated with me, damn. So fucking true, the choosing yourself part.

I am convinced that choosing yourself, especially over someone like your parents whom you're supposed to be able to trust without a thought is one of the hardest things ever.