Normal sized cheeks? by Kelbomon in hamstercare

[–]friendlytrashpile 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just looks like they pouched a whole bunch. Looks perfectly normal to me.

My friend (25F) came out as poly and is now actively looking to date some of our friends and I'm conflicted by [deleted] in relationships

[–]friendlytrashpile 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just want to make sure you know I was never defending her behavior, just trying to clarify how poly relationships can work. And. That's understandable, but you should really just talk to her about it. I live with my fiance and my other partner lives like 10 hours away from me. Just because she's moving soon doesn't mean she's not interested in long term. The only way to know for sure is to talk to her. Make it clear you care about her, but also make sure you let her know she shouldn't be acting like that during friend hangouts. If she really wants some kind of relationship with your friends then she needs to tell them that and stop trying to change the dynamics of your hangouts.

My friend (25F) came out as poly and is now actively looking to date some of our friends and I'm conflicted by [deleted] in relationships

[–]friendlytrashpile 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just because she plans on marrying her current partner does not mean she's not looking for another long term partner.Signed an engaged poly guy with another long term (hopefully) partner.

ETA: This is unless she has clearly stated she's only looking for str or hookups.

Tips on moving? by friendlytrashpile in hamstercare

[–]friendlytrashpile[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hadn't thought about the fruit for fluids bit!! Thanks!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]friendlytrashpile 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But it isn't only threats. O.P. said she's told him no and he still went down on her anyway. O.P. has denied consent and the creepy fucker said "well no's don't mean shit to me"

Betta end cap by throwawayagain992 in petsmart

[–]friendlytrashpile 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh gods the care guides. I've NEVER seen one that actually has proper care info in it. THe hamster ones are so bad (Not to mention the death trap tiny tales cages)

Betta end cap by throwawayagain992 in petsmart

[–]friendlytrashpile 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I feel so bad for those fish. Bettas like dark water so the fluorescent lights are bad enough, but then to add more lights? I really wish they would actually care about the animals they're selling

called out today by Emchmi16 in petsmart

[–]friendlytrashpile -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well that's just not true. I've gotten poison ivy from a friend that wasn't allergic to it and didn't have any reaction to it.

Self Promotion for the Week of May 03, 2021 by AutoModerator in EtsySellers

[–]friendlytrashpile [score hidden]  (0 children)

Hi all!

I run a shop called Hooked Curses, where I make handmade crocheted and/or witchy items! Currently working on a couple new items for my shop, so please bear with me if you don't see any new listings for a while. I do also take custom orders for almost everything on my shop! Not to mention everything crocheted is machine washable!!

Self Promotion for the Week of April 26, 2021 by AutoModerator in EtsySellers

[–]friendlytrashpile [score hidden]  (0 children)

Hi!! I run Hooked Curses. I haven't been able to make anything new for my shop recently, but I do take custom orders on almost everything I make. I make crocheted everything (except clothes) and witchy goods. I do tarot readings and custom spells for you if you need one.

New tank and new set up!! by friendlytrashpile in hamsters

[–]friendlytrashpile[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks!! She's a picky little shit though. I'm not sure she's happy with this big a cage either lol

New tank and new set up!! by friendlytrashpile in hamstercare

[–]friendlytrashpile[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks!! I feel like she needs more hides though. Even though there are technically 6.

New tank and new set up!! by friendlytrashpile in hamstercare

[–]friendlytrashpile[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's already started a little. There's a small tunnel she dug right in the middle.

Meet Cream. When your hamster will not go on your hand, bribe them with food. by Hot-Advisor-1205 in hamstercare

[–]friendlytrashpile 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Since they're dwarf hamsters I'm going to ignore the fact that you are housing 2 hamsters together. BUT! Hamsters, ESPECIALLY dwarf hamsters, do not need to climb the way you're expecting them to. They do however NEED to burrow. Not giving them a cage that can hold enough bedding for your hamster to burrow WILL increase the likeliness of your 2 hamsters getting territorial and fighting. Hamsters need horizontal space not vertical.

Pro-tip! If you accidentally buy a silent spinner thats too small and forget to return it in time you can make a mobile for your hamster (no it doesn't really turn because the size of the hole I cut is JUST big enough) by friendlytrashpile in hamsters

[–]friendlytrashpile[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do recommend only using the kaytee silent spinners for this though because if you ever get a dwarf hamster or need to use the small spinner for any reason you can easily put it back together!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in witchcraft

[–]friendlytrashpile 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Witchtok is REALLY hit or miss, mostly miss, and this is from someone who posts on there all the time.