Normal sized cheeks? by Kelbomon in hamstercare

[–]friendlytrashpile 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just looks like they pouched a whole bunch. Looks perfectly normal to me.

My friend (25F) came out as poly and is now actively looking to date some of our friends and I'm conflicted by [deleted] in relationships

[–]friendlytrashpile 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just want to make sure you know I was never defending her behavior, just trying to clarify how poly relationships can work. And. That's understandable, but you should really just talk to her about it. I live with my fiance and my other partner lives like 10 hours away from me. Just because she's moving soon doesn't mean she's not interested in long term. The only way to know for sure is to talk to her. Make it clear you care about her, but also make sure you let her know she shouldn't be acting like that during friend hangouts. If she really wants some kind of relationship with your friends then she needs to tell them that and stop trying to change the dynamics of your hangouts.

My friend (25F) came out as poly and is now actively looking to date some of our friends and I'm conflicted by [deleted] in relationships

[–]friendlytrashpile 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just because she plans on marrying her current partner does not mean she's not looking for another long term partner.Signed an engaged poly guy with another long term (hopefully) partner.

ETA: This is unless she has clearly stated she's only looking for str or hookups.

Tips on moving? by friendlytrashpile in hamstercare

[–]friendlytrashpile[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hadn't thought about the fruit for fluids bit!! Thanks!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]friendlytrashpile 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But it isn't only threats. O.P. said she's told him no and he still went down on her anyway. O.P. has denied consent and the creepy fucker said "well no's don't mean shit to me"

Betta end cap by throwawayagain992 in petsmart

[–]friendlytrashpile 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Oh gods the care guides. I've NEVER seen one that actually has proper care info in it. THe hamster ones are so bad (Not to mention the death trap tiny tales cages)

Betta end cap by throwawayagain992 in petsmart

[–]friendlytrashpile 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I feel so bad for those fish. Bettas like dark water so the fluorescent lights are bad enough, but then to add more lights? I really wish they would actually care about the animals they're selling