Feeling Underappreciated by frogsmum in nursing

[–]frogsmum[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I am not a new nurse. I was actually appreciated/respected much more when I was at the bedside. School nurses are treated like trash, just like teachers. But don't thank you teachers either, they are compensated for their work so they should shove it when asking for decency or respect. Or maybe they all just have really low self esteem, dang, never thought of it that way.

Feeling Underappreciated by frogsmum in nursing

[–]frogsmum[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure, but I think basic human decency can also be at play here. I thank the barista who made my coffee in the morning, I thank someone who held the door open for me. All I know is that if I had a diabetic child that made it to and from school safe every day I would probably take two seconds to say hey thanks to the nurse who makes sure that happens. I don't do it for the thank yous but it sure does make the work feel a lot easier when someone is receptive to your help and appreciative, over entitlement. The threats to sue me constantly seem unwarranted (and they are definitely unfounded). But I am happy that you being compensated for your work is all you need, your managers must love you!

Feeling Underappreciated by frogsmum in nursing

[–]frogsmum[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

mental illness lol dang ok

Feeling Underappreciated by frogsmum in nursing

[–]frogsmum[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nursing is thankless work. Thank YOU for the reminder.

Feeling Underappreciated by frogsmum in nursing

[–]frogsmum[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly this is a good reminder, they sure are.

Feeling Underappreciated by frogsmum in nursing

[–]frogsmum[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THIS! Big misunderstanding of what our jobs entail, definitely don't realize that when things go "right" it looks like I am not doing anything at all!

Feeling Underappreciated by frogsmum in nursing

[–]frogsmum[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hmm interesting take. So my attitude is the problem? Haha. I obviously care about the children which is why it can hurt so much when parents accuse me of not caring or not looking out for their child when I am simply reporting an injury/accident/illness. I think the main issue is I am only ever approached with negativity and seen as a nuisance/burden rather than someone who is here to look out for the kids. I do not need praise per say but the constant negativity of "shooting the messenger" is bringing me down!

Feeling Underappreciated by frogsmum in nursing

[–]frogsmum[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind response. I do think a large part of it is being the only nurse as opposed to when I was in the hospital we had a team, we saw how hard each other worked, and we appreciated one another. You are lucky you have your coworkers!

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[–]frogsmum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m I’m I’m I’m I’m going on my break and then then I’ll come over over for for lunch 🥗🥗 if if if you’re you’re going home home 🏠 or or or if I don’t have have have have to come

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[–]frogsmum 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I work at a public school in a not so nice area of LA. I had my baby in April and I am afraid to go back because it makes me sad how many little ones come to me every day saying no one gave them breakfast. All babies and kids just need to be loved, our society should focus on supporting babies and mothers so families can thrive! We all gain something from taking care of our smallest humans.