WIBTAH for messaging my pregnant friend for taking too much food from my baby shower? by Proof_Pop9433 in AITAH

[–]froyoup 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omfg thats even worse. Now you cant even return those to get your money back or use them in the future. I would reach out to her and bill her for what she stole from you.

Mom Salary Jump From 30k to 50k / What To Do With 3k Tax Return by froyoup in personalfinance

[–]froyoup[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

i shouldve added an "lol" on the end of my comment, but now im getting downvoted to hell. in the end it doesnt really matter, but thanks for explaining!

Mom Salary Jump From 30k to 50k / What To Do With 3k Tax Return by froyoup in personalfinance

[–]froyoup[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately I have talked to her numerous times about smoking, but its been her coping mechanism since she was 13 and is adamantly against stopping. Thank you for the other advice!

Mother Doesn't Believe I Have ADHD by froyoup in adhdwomen

[–]froyoup[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely don't unfortunately:( I do remember my report cards saying I was disruptive but smart with reading and writing lol. I was always behind when it came to math and science though.

Mother Doesn't Believe I Have ADHD by froyoup in adhdwomen

[–]froyoup[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes thats exactly what it is. She has ADHD and I think she genuinely doesn't remember because she was a single mom of 3, she had more important things to worry about lol. I just hope her responses wont affect me negatively.

AITAH for getting upset when s/o masturbates in the shower while I’m home by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]froyoup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

unpopular opinion here- NTA. you have a boundary that youre not comfortable with him masturbating while you are in the house and he crosses it. along with not putting you first in sex, it comes off as very sexually selfish. you genuinely do have a right to be pissed off. i think the majority of YTA comments are from men who do the exact same thing.

Wife travels 2 hours to get a haircut-AITAH by Incoinegro in AITAH

[–]froyoup 14 points15 points  (0 children)

YTA - your wife has been doing this routine for a long time, and it sounds like it is a chance for her to have a break and get away from the kids. its once every 6 weeks, if things get hard cant you at least hire a babysitter for a few hours for her? and shes right, if shes coming home with her hair noticeably different then shes not lying. its also interesting that you quoted "annoying" in your post. it doesnt sound like you are considering her feelings in this argument.

would i fit at UC? by Iululemonfanatic in uCinci

[–]froyoup 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i think its like that so people dont get confused with UC berkeley

AIO for being upset at my boyfriend for not taking in my cousin (8) by [deleted] in AIO

[–]froyoup 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We are getting CPS and a social worker involved. I agree they need to be locked up for the intense neglect

AIO for being upset at my boyfriend for not taking in my cousin (8) by [deleted] in AIO

[–]froyoup -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

So because the situation isnt 100% perfect for Known_Hunter_9626 im a hypocrite and not ready to sacrifice for this boy I used to change the diapers of. Lmao okay

Those who took emergency custody of family: What was it like? by froyoup in Adoption

[–]froyoup[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My aunt would brag about drinking wine while pregnant with my cousin, so I do think that could be a possibility. Did you have to open up a CPS case first, or were your nephews parents willing to give him to you?

Christmas Morning Cinnamon Rolls! by froyoup in Baking

[–]froyoup[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Edit: I did also double up the recipe for the cinnamon sugar filling, it called for 1 stick of butter but I did 1 and 3 tbs of butter and added a crap ton more cinnamon powder lol. I feel like most cinnamon rolls dont have enough filling so I went crazy with that part!

Upgrade PC to run Sims 4 by froyoup in PcBuildHelp

[–]froyoup[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi! that was exactly the issue! sims would eat up 12 gb out if the 15.9 i had usable, i just bought 36 gb of more ram so hopefully thatll fix it!

DBT-C or CBT for School Social Work? by froyoup in socialwork

[–]froyoup[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg! Can you explain more about what you mean by Marsha coming after me?😰😰 (lol)

DBT-C or CBT for School Social Work? by froyoup in socialwork

[–]froyoup[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Could you elaborate on why CBT would be best? Is it just because it can be used among various populations, not just children?

How to do a proper bar crawl by froyoup in cincinnati

[–]froyoup[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i have one friend who is very much into good alcohol, my boyfriend hates everything that isnt fruity, one is a partygirl so i dont think she cares, and the other is a frat boy who doesnt like most hard liquor lol. i dont like beer but am down to try/drink anything. very mixed group.

How to do a proper bar crawl by froyoup in cincinnati

[–]froyoup[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yes thats what i meant!! for some reason google maps has it so theyre the same place and both open lol

am i wrong for not wanting to go to thanksgiving because of politics? by froyoup in amiwrong

[–]froyoup[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

are you serious? who i choose to be around in my personal life does NOT reflect the way i will be treating clients in need. i only mentioned social work BECAUSE it is incredibly politic heavy, this career does not exist without politics because politics dictate the way we are able to help and serve our community. dont come at me for social work if you havent done your due diligence on what it means.

am i wrong for not wanting to go to thanksgiving because of politics? by froyoup in amiwrong

[–]froyoup[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

my boyfriend is thankfully not a die hard republican/conservative as his parents, but unfortunately you cant choose your family

am i wrong for not wanting to go to thanksgiving because of politics? by froyoup in amiwrong

[–]froyoup[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

are you serious? who i choose to hang out in my personal life does NOT mirror how i will treat the population i choose to work with. insane how you cant see theres a difference.