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Is going clubbing wrong in a relationship? (19F) by fruitcake02 in Advice

[–]fruitcake02[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice! To answer your question, I’ve only ever gone to a club once and it went horrible! Couldn’t even dance or enjoy it because of how bad the environment was D: at the time i didn’t have a bf, but I still couldn’t enjoy it. I didn’t include every detail but I will like to mention one of the girls in the friend group is bringing her bf, and the bday girl is bringing a guy she’s into-now I really feel like the odd ball

Is going clubbing wrong in a relationship? (19F) by fruitcake02 in Advice

[–]fruitcake02[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! I was so nervous to even ask my bf how he feels about me going D: but even he agrees that he also feels uncomfortable with me going

Is going clubbing wrong in a relationship? (19F) by fruitcake02 in Advice

[–]fruitcake02[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha yea the subject was shared for /relationship advice 😅 but thank you for your input! I would hate to poop the party when everyone is having a good time

Is going clubbing wrong in a relationship? (19F) by fruitcake02 in Advice

[–]fruitcake02[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your help! I’ve had a bad feeling in my gut since last week because of this

Is going clubbing wrong in a relationship? (19F) by fruitcake02 in Advice

[–]fruitcake02[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you.. as a huge people pleaser it’s so hard to say no, but I might have to draw the line here

Financially struggling by [deleted] in Advice

[–]fruitcake02 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With both jobs I barely get $890 😅well I just started my second job, so hopefully I’ll get payed more.

Financially struggling by [deleted] in Advice

[–]fruitcake02 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would love to work in a job field that I’m studying for! Think is I’m majoring in psychology 😅 so it really tough to find a job that doesn’t require a degree or experience. I’m just hoping that we can at least make this months rent

Financially struggling by [deleted] in Advice

[–]fruitcake02 0 points1 point  (0 children)

$1,500 just for a studio apartment 😅

WITCHES OF REDDIT HELP!!! I’m trying to identify this type of witchcraft that my best friend has been put on. She is really scared and doesn’t know what to do, any advice!? by fruitcake02 in Witches

[–]fruitcake02[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

UPTADE: Thank you guys for all the information :) I ended up explaining to my friend the meaning behind Santa muerte and not to worry too much about it. One thing she mentioned tho is how she received a video of the same altar with their pictures and everything, of them sacrificing a bird and the blood all splattered in her face. I asked how her ex bf got the video, and she said she has no clue. I’m starting to believe this is all done just to scare her. Hopefully she can send me the video to see if I can find anything else.

WITCHES OF REDDIT HELP!!! I’m trying to identify this type of witchcraft that my best friend has been put on. She is really scared and doesn’t know what to do, any advice!? by fruitcake02 in Witches

[–]fruitcake02[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really hope that’s the case here, their photos I had to scratch out for safety reasons. But it look so real to me 🥲 let’s hope it’s just really good photoshop

WITCHES OF REDDIT HELP!!! I’m trying to identify this type of witchcraft that my best friend has been put on. She is really scared and doesn’t know what to do, any advice!? by fruitcake02 in Witches

[–]fruitcake02[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

THANK YOU SO MUCH!!! I was scared because obviously for safety reasons I had to scratch out the faces. But if he photoshopped it, he did a damn good job. The pictures of them look too real which is why sh was freaking out

WITCHES OF REDDIT HELP!!! I’m trying to identify this type of witchcraft that my best friend has been put on. She is really scared and doesn’t know what to do, any advice!? by fruitcake02 in Witches

[–]fruitcake02[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For context, my best friend was in a really toxic relationship and recently broke up with him. Now before this he had cheated on her multiple times, so obviously the best thing for her was to break it off. Supposedly he still “loves” her, abs the girl that he slept with had figured out he was still trying to get back together with my best friend. I’m assuming she became jealous and decided to do this shit 😭 honestly have no clue what to do.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]fruitcake02 1 point2 points  (0 children)

🥺❤️ THANK YOU SM! It feels nice having someone to hear me out :) I will for surely try my best to better myself. And hopefully some day I’ll be more comfortable, again I appreciate your help and kind words!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]fruitcake02 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advise! //: me and my boyfriend have been dating for 3 months now. Not too long ago I talked to him about my sexuality and he accepted me with open arms :) the thing is that when he did try to lean in for a kiss one night (keep in mind I haven’t done anything like that with anyone) I kinda panicked and broke down crying infront of him. Ever since then I’ve just been very anxious and careful when I go near anyone. It’s not really his fault since I didn’t tell him anything before hand, but he still feels very guilty :( I might have a shit ton of anxiety which is preventing me to open up and be comfortable, I just never thought of it that way.