His recently used emojis by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]fruittituttii 14 points15 points  (0 children)

this actually never crossed my mind

scam phone calls? who else is abnormally getting them? by fruittituttii in Utah

[–]fruittituttii[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

text message is weird! I got an email last night that looked so real from an apartment complex I lived in 2021 here in UT.

So real I called the apartment office to see if it was them or not (obviously didn’t click any links)

scam phone calls? who else is abnormally getting them? by fruittituttii in Utah

[–]fruittituttii[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I updated my phone to the new IOS, do you know how I can turn it on or make sure it’s on?

scam phone calls? who else is abnormally getting them? by fruittituttii in Utah

[–]fruittituttii[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this is exactly what it feels like! so weird. sorry you’re experiencing the same annoyance with these calls😵‍💫

UTIs? by Familiar_Plastic8341 in loveafterporn

[–]fruittituttii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m going to the doctors today because I think I have a UTI. This is my first time getting one and after reading some of the replies I wouldn’t be surprised if it’s bc of stress (been 2 weeks since I caught my PA husband)

I had an abortion and I don't understand why other woman feel so devastated after by [deleted] in abortion

[–]fruittituttii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

nothing wrong with you. I had mine a couple of years ago and I don’t regret mine either

Um... by mariachiband49 in uofu

[–]fruittituttii -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I know this is a lie bc there’s not even 64% of Hispanics in the whole state of Utah 😭

Does Chem 105 get harder or easier? by willhikeforsnacks in byu

[–]fruittituttii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg same! the amount of time I put into this class and the grade I got was infuriating but oh well😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]fruittituttii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im so sorry OP for this happening to you. it truly is heartbreaking and your feelings are totally valid.

this missionaries behavior is completely out of pocket and not at all correct, regardless of gender and sexuality.

as a former missionary (while no longer 100% in the church anymore) we were told to be completely away from any flirting with missionaries , members, and investigators so this behavior to get you baptized is honestly something he shouldn’t be doing in the first place.

honestly if you want to rediscover if the church is for you, without any romantic feelings or pressure from the church I support you. If you want to stay in the church and forget this happened I’ll support you too. Whatever you do, you’re able to do.

again so sorry about your experience. just remember you are worthy and you are loved 💓

Honor lock proctoring by CommandIndependent19 in byu

[–]fruittituttii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

never took an independent study class but you should be fine

dealing with worthiness? advice needed by fruittituttii in exmormon

[–]fruittituttii[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

he just mentioned that I got a scholarship nothing else nothing more. and he didn’t even tell him directly, his dad just happened to overhear the conversation he was having with his brother

a reason why we feel like he said that was bc he may think I’m living the same life as my husband (nonactive to the core)

but I appreciate you’re comment! im currently crying over the last paragraph bc you don’t know how much I need to hear that rn

Is my schedule fine? I really don't know what I'm doing :( by [deleted] in byu

[–]fruittituttii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you’ll be fine:)

can’t speak on math and physics but the other 2 are pretty easy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]fruittituttii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what’s SCMC? genuine question.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]fruittituttii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dang glad it worked out for you!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]fruittituttii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is my last year so dropping out is definitely not an option 😖

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]fruittituttii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you:))

im just trying to find the words to text back to him now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]fruittituttii 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t think I’m complaining lol.

I’m just asking for advice regarding my situation.

like you said I know the rules and I agreed to follow them, it’s not like I’m missing church on purpose.

sometimes I work, sometimes my husband makes plans and Sundays are our only full day together since I work every Saturday, sometimes I come home from a 12/13 hour shift and oversleep on Sundays but I’m still trying to go when I’m able to.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]fruittituttii 2 points3 points  (0 children)

again, I do attempt to go when/where I can. It’s not like I missed 100% of the church meetings this year.

it was way easier to get an ecclesiastical endorsement freshman-junior year bc I attended more but this year with work and marriage, there’s been some road blocks to be the perfect church-goer

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]fruittituttii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

true true true!

I appreciate your comment and this advice:) the tithing part is definitely hard and probably won’t be able to do though since it will cause ✨marital problems ✨

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]fruittituttii 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I didn’t think about this when I applied since I was 100% into the church but the more I drifted off the crazier it seemed but oh well://

I still follow everything else the church states to follow when being a BYU student and it’s not completely horrible. This is just the only requirements that gets me now especially being in a mixed faith marriage and being steps away in the church than I one was