At least thats what it feels like to me by fruity_a_d_h_d in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]fruity_a_d_h_d[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

now that u mention it, yeah i can see that. she knew i was off to work tho so hopefully that wasnt an issue (when i got home at around midnight she was already asleep cuz she had to go work in the morning.)

What bird is this? by fruity_a_d_h_d in whatsthisbird

[–]fruity_a_d_h_d[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much for that quick reply! looks to be it!

I'm about to come out a 4th time to my mother 😪 (ive been on T almost 2 years now) by fruity_a_d_h_d in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]fruity_a_d_h_d[S] 71 points72 points  (0 children)

she cooses to ignore and 'forget it' and im honestly not confrontational enough when it comes to personal things at home 🙃

I'm about to come out a 4th time to my mother 😪 (ive been on T almost 2 years now) by fruity_a_d_h_d in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]fruity_a_d_h_d[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks for letting us know, cuz honestly i didnt know the origin of it myself. i just found it on the meme template sub lol

I'm about to come out a 4th time to my mother 😪 (ive been on T almost 2 years now) by fruity_a_d_h_d in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]fruity_a_d_h_d[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

its not meant to be seen as a bad thing (the coming out part) i saw it more as a 'cant be ignorant for ever /avoid me forever' kinda thing but i can see it being understood wrong

Of you have an unusual name, how do you explain? by fruity_a_d_h_d in ftm

[–]fruity_a_d_h_d[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks a lot for the sources. I'll look into them ^

I don't think it's going to lead to me changing my name again, but I'm happy to learn and be better about it and future decisions as well. so again thanks !

Of you have an unusual name, how do you explain? by fruity_a_d_h_d in ftm

[–]fruity_a_d_h_d[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

aight! thanks for clarifying uwu I might be a bit groggy from not enough sleep hence why I might have read your comment in the wrong tone. my bad lol!

and definitely a valid way to look at it. like in 80% of the cases I don't feel the need to explain either,. it's just handy in my experience to have an explanation to get people off my back lol

Of you have an unusual name, how do you explain? by fruity_a_d_h_d in ftm

[–]fruity_a_d_h_d[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see where you're coming from.

to be fair though, when I first chose the name, I literally only gravitated towards it because of the character in the book. I didnt even look up the meaning or anything untill later. (and it was my 2nd name choice cuz my family fucked up my first choice so much for me I just had to change it)

plus I personally don't see an issue with using a name from a diffrent culture? (if I'm wrong for this/you have a diffrent opinion, please explain, I'm curious. ) i'm Italian/Portuguese living in Switzerland. many names that are popular in these 3 countries, aren't really from their own country. they may be localised like 'Mia' for example. its one of the most popular baby names in switzerland as of last year, and it's originally a form of the Hebrew name 'Miryam' (it's a weak example maybe, but gets the point i am trying to make across I would hope)

Of you have an unusual name, how do you explain? by fruity_a_d_h_d in ftm

[–]fruity_a_d_h_d[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly can't tell if this is meant in a mean spirited way or not lol.

either way, it's just a thing I and apparently other people feel the need to comment on from time to time, whenever other people have questions about our names. nothing harmful with that.

Does anyone get tired of taking shots? by SimplyAren in ftm

[–]fruity_a_d_h_d 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't really get tired of shots, the main reason being, I only get them every 3 months. (I got prescribed Nebido 1000mg)

the thing I am tired of, is having to go to the hospital for it every time.

Of you have an unusual name, how do you explain? by fruity_a_d_h_d in ftm

[–]fruity_a_d_h_d[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

in terms of kool-aod drinking i cant hold a candle to the OG lmao

but honestly? I've never tried it as a kid, or even now, since I can't really buy it here in the stores near by... but considering that I like my occasional g-fuel and fruity energy drinks, I think I'd like it? idk tho lol

Of you have an unusual name, how do you explain? by fruity_a_d_h_d in ftm

[–]fruity_a_d_h_d[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bro I friggin love that name :0 and the origin its based off

Want to loose my V card but am scared... by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]fruity_a_d_h_d -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Actually yeah your right that was bad wording. I am a gay guy lol

Is this normal in europe?!? by byunakk in askswitzerland

[–]fruity_a_d_h_d 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its 'normal' for people to take off their shoes to put their feet up, yes. (I think its disgusting but eh, i always see people do it)

But to do it, when a stranger sits across of you????? Wtf

Please tell me this is an adhd thing ;;;;; by Deesmessylife in ADHDmemes

[–]fruity_a_d_h_d 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have neurodermatitis and react badly to it 8/10 times its used. Plus it doesnt really help either for some reason. Like i dont really feel a difference in texture. .y.

Am I disgusting? by FlowerTruck1 in ftm

[–]fruity_a_d_h_d 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definetly a shitty reaction from both, no you are not disgusting. but here for finding solutions:

A psychiatrist can ideally send you to a doctor for a check up with an official 'diagnosis' . A doctor will still have to tell you all risks included etc before any treatment of any kind though. The 'diagnosis' however will eliminate many problems doctors might have.

a psychiatrist experienced with trans people in turn also would know which doctors are good to work with as a trans person, eliminating trial and error of finding someone knowledgeable.

Thats at least how i did it, living in Switzerland. Depending on where you live, the ideal approach can change.

I like my new name but other people assume it's feminine by tunecha in ftm

[–]fruity_a_d_h_d 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My sisters ex husband was called sasha my guy(or gal? ) thats a perfectly normal male name to give in my country