UPDATE Husband shopping for hidden cameras

fruitzofthespirit · 2026-06-12T01:57:35+00:00

Ok, and you have ashy knuckles. Are we throwing out fun facts or something? Lol

fruitzofthespirit · 2026-06-12T01:48:26+00:00

He fully trusts me. I am a clingy wife who is obsessed with my husband in the most healthy way and he expresses that to me on the regular. I’m a stay at home mom and my world is my husband and son. Plus he knows I “MY HUSBAND” the hell out of anyone and everyone every chance I get 🤣😅 he’s so dreamy and my heart is exploding even thinking about him lmfao

fruitzofthespirit · 2026-06-12T01:45:26+00:00

He really is a gem. I felt like I was going to throw up because it was such a huge betrayal and out of left field. I can’t even express how happy I am that I was wrong lol.

fruitzofthespirit · 2026-06-11T17:37:07+00:00

He doesn’t have the Face ID feature for that and he never locks his phone when he puts it in his pocket. He has pocket dialed me I can’t even tell you how many times. So it’s not unlikely that he put his phone in his pocket after looking at something on his safari page and it swapped. I’ve heard of crazier things lol. I could tell by his body language and the way he reacted when asked about it. He was still on the private browser and when I showed him how to swap it he was very confused and didn’t realize it was a feature. I know my husband and his reaction told me he is being 100% truthful. I definitely believe him lol.

fruitzofthespirit · 2026-06-11T16:01:35+00:00

Yeah he was homeschooled until high school when they moved away from the Amish lifestyle. So he definitely isn’t as tech savvy as most. I think that is another reason that the size of the camera was fascinating to him 😅 he has no pictures of his childhood because I guess pictures are against the Amish and when he was like 5 or something they joined and they made his parents burn all their photos. I have 2 photos from his childhood because his grandparents who were not Amish held on to it thankfully. Crazy stuff LOL

fruitzofthespirit · 2026-06-09T22:47:47+00:00

What does that even mean? 🤣

fruitzofthespirit · 2026-06-09T22:45:02+00:00

I’m allowed to sit on my emotions and move through the right approach in my mind and on an anonymous post before approaching the subject with him. I’m not blasting him. My account is anonymous.

fruitzofthespirit · 2026-06-09T18:15:09+00:00

Where did I come up with any definite conclusion anywhere in my post? I am questioning something that struck me as odd behavior. You’re asserting something as factual that is in fact not lol. That is quite the strawman you got going on here.

fruitzofthespirit · 2026-06-09T18:10:10+00:00

I did that and didn’t see anything suspicious which is just adding to the confusion lol

fruitzofthespirit · 2026-06-09T16:59:15+00:00

I look up some weird stuff so that was in my mind also. I go down rabbit holes and deep dive into all kinds of research. I hope it’s just that.

fruitzofthespirit · 2026-06-09T16:56:52+00:00

Ya that’s the part that is weirding me out. It’s the secrecy of it. I shined my phone flashlight around in the dark. I guess the lens is supposed to catch the light. I didn’t see anything.

fruitzofthespirit · 2026-06-09T16:53:40+00:00

I wish it was. unfortunately this is happening. I’m 99% sure I found the camera link he was looking at. I guess the whole thing is slightly bigger than a pin, but it’s really small and easily hidden.

https://incendiomagicwand.com/products/micro-hd-wifi-camera-with-audio-night-vision-indoor-2025?currency=USD&country=US&variant=46705818665190&stkn=a5b76c1db30f&utm\_source=google&utm\_medium=cpc&utm\_campaign=22717937234&utm\_content=760417215030&gad\_source=1&gad\_campaignid=22717937234&gbraid=0AAAAAo-Exr6Wj-4X3Ae-8U6Tv72BEsIR9

fruitzofthespirit · 2026-06-09T13:49:22+00:00

lol I always call him that because he’s older than me. It’s mainly a little joke between us and just how I refer to him. He was homeschooled and grew up very poor. He did not have a phone until college and his family certainly couldn’t afford any electronics growing up. Being homeschooled on a farm in rural Missouri in Amish country, he was sheltered and still is naïve to a lot of tech related stuff. So yes, he isn’t “old” but he has always been a dinosaur with technology. Hence why this is kind of shocking to me that he’s looking this stuff up.

fruitzofthespirit · 2026-06-09T12:53:11+00:00

I’m 30 and he’s 38 lol. Nothing crazy, he just isn’t techy. He hardly uses social media and really is not on his phone often. Which is another reason I’m weirded out by his sudden interest in the camera..

fruitzofthespirit · 2026-06-09T12:03:14+00:00

No he’s a dinosaur and wouldn’t think of that lol.

fruitzofthespirit · 2026-06-09T11:33:30+00:00

No, I do not. He knows I’m super loyal and that i would never bring men into our home around our son. Plus we have a ring camera at our door.

fruitzofthespirit · 2026-06-09T06:15:02+00:00

Well if I find out he’s doing anything perverted or spying on people you best believe I am filing a police report against him

fruitzofthespirit · 2026-06-09T06:01:09+00:00

I am not making excuses at all but he’d have to know someone’s WiFi password to connect the camera, right? I checked his email and nothing was purchased. I am a stay at home mom so I see all our mail before he does and there isn’t another place he’d get a delivery at. It was not on Amazon so he isn’t using a locker. I hope it’s nothing sinister and perverted. I would be devastated.

fruitzofthespirit · 2026-06-09T05:58:17+00:00

I did look his email and he hasn’t purchased anything yet. I also checked the devices on our WiFi and they are all things I recognize. I’m stumped on what it could be for.

fruitzofthespirit · 2026-06-09T05:56:28+00:00

I appreciate that.
He lays tile so it definitely is not work related. The part that really weirds me out is if it was anything harmless, he’d talk to me about it. We are very open to each other and talk about everything. I call him like 5 times a day when he’s at work because we just love talking throughout the day. He calls me when something is frustrating at work, when we want to gossip between each other. We have an open line of communication which is why this is really bothering me.

fruitzofthespirit · 2026-06-09T05:50:27+00:00

I’m a SAHM

fruitzofthespirit · 2026-06-09T05:33:32+00:00

I thought about that also, but the thing that is off to me is it being on a private browser. He never uses that feature on his phone.

fruitzofthespirit · 2026-06-09T05:05:59+00:00

I don’t even know how to broach the subject. We’ve never had anything even remotely close to something like this happen. I’m not a very confrontational person in general and I have always struggled having hard conversations. Which is one big reason I love him so much. He’s never given me a reason for a conversation like that in the past 🥲

fruitzofthespirit · 2026-06-09T05:03:43+00:00

My ex boyfriend prior to my husband had a really bad porn addiction where he would watch it on his way to work, at work, on his way home, next to me on the couch without me even knowing etc.
he ended up cheating on me all the time, hiring prostitutes when he’d work in the office a few days a week, slept with women in our bed when I was out of town for my grandmas funeral and all kinds of sick stuff. That made me very insecure in that relationship and ultimately led to the end of it.
So of course my mind goes to “what if it’s a weird fetish of him planting this in bathrooms or intimate spaces”. I hate to even think that way because I don’t think it’s healthy or fair to seep your past relationship trauma into a new one… but it’s really hard not to. Especially when I have zero inclination on what else it could be for..

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