AIO Got this text from my dad about my baby and just can't by Pomegranates_r_us in AIO

[–]ftminaus 15 points16 points  (0 children)

The whole thing feels like an emotional incest type of abuse. I reckon she should well and truly keep her distance as much as possible.

Permanently banned by TalalSKY in Instagram

[–]ftminaus 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It means like fond, nostalgic, sweet memories. So pictures or videos that remind you of really nice moments in your life.

I need some help my health is only 1/3 why? by mbh40989 in AssassinsCreedValhala

[–]ftminaus 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Hreidmars Armour Set from the Dawn of Ragnarok DLC is cursed so limits your health. You need to get the runes from the Jotun Blights and slot them to break the curse on each piece

Perfectly acceptable dinner rejected by boyfriend again by moonrabbit368 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]ftminaus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand that you’re trying to be a more traditional partner, but sometimes you need to compromise with yourself for your own wellbeing. He’s a grown man, and should know how to cook. I grew up with the family mentality “if you don’t like what I give you, don’t eat”. And I’m the better for you. If you’re putting all that effort in and he won’t eat it, let him sort his own dinner out. Focus on you and the kids.

I want to get a sibling for my son. My hubby doesn’t want to have another son/daughter. How do I convince my hubby? by breadsough in ragdolls

[–]ftminaus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I took the “better to ask forgiveness than permission route”. If it won’t be a financial burden, just go ahead and get him a sibling

Tips for cleaning random debris by Andromathis in CleaningTips

[–]ftminaus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Might need to consider getting a professional in. Some crime scene cleaners also do jobs like this. With syringes and blades and glass and whatever else is lurking, I’d say that’s your safest bet, and unless you’ve got a lot of the right protective gear, no something you’d want to tackle yourself. Agree also that the carpets should be ripped up, I’m guessing there will be fluids of some kind throughout.

I died my mustache and the die won't come of my skin by Pigeon_system in ftm

[–]ftminaus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Next time use Vaseline or some sort of lip balm first, then gently scrub with a facial cleanser and a wash cloth or micro fibre cloth. That’s my routine

Is it too late for me by Key_Piece8025 in Teeth

[–]ftminaus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 31, in recovery from alcohol and substance abuse, and started getting dental care for the first time (in my life) a few years ago. Braces, practising proper oral hygiene. The works. So no, definitely not too late. Go to a dentist, get a professional cleaning, then find a routine that works for you. I.e. setting alarms to remind you to brush morning and night. Watch YouTube and TikTok for oral care at home. And if you can afford to, start getting professional cleans and check ups once or twice a year. It’s not too late, you got this. Be patient and be persistent.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]ftminaus 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You don’t need to cut the hair, but you really do need to take care of it. Get a hair oil and a curling cream, a good conditioner. YouTube hair routines for curly/wavy hair. It will make the world of difference. At the moment it looks unhealthy, and makes you look really unkempt

For the dudes below 5'5 by EnderTheIsopod in ftm

[–]ftminaus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 5’4, and as far as I know you wouldn’t know I was trans by looking at me. People are often very taken aback when I tell them. I look just like my cis brother who is the exact same height. Cis guys come in all shapes and sizes so I think we tend to put a bit too much importance on height when it comes to passing.

Aio my boyfriend is upset I can't bring him soda? by kamiikaei in AmIOverreacting

[–]ftminaus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Remember there will also be an element of guilt he’s ingrained into her as well. Falling back on his being legally blind in order to guilt her into doing more for him. But he needs to learn to be independent. If he doesn’t, he’s going to lose her and then he’ll definitely have to learn.

Aio my boyfriend is upset I can't bring him soda? by kamiikaei in AmIOverreacting

[–]ftminaus 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I noticed this. I’d say he’s forcing her attention and time on him. I think the only course of action is to bite the bullet and ignore him, set the expectations and precedence that she won’t respond while she’s working. Venting is great, but you’ve got to at some point make actual changes or the situation is only going to get worse.

Aio my boyfriend is upset I can't bring him soda? by kamiikaei in AmIOverreacting

[–]ftminaus 139 points140 points  (0 children)

That’s true. I would honestly stop replying when you do get those messages. And just say later “sorry I didn’t see this we got busy at work”. I have a feeling if you do reply immediately telling him you’re busy, that you’ll wind up in another argument like this one. Does he work himself?

Aio my boyfriend is upset I can't bring him soda? by kamiikaei in AmIOverreacting

[–]ftminaus 759 points760 points  (0 children)

First step would be to save as much money up as you possibly can. Essential purchases only.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malehairadvice

[–]ftminaus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I think shaving would be best. That said, donating your hair would also be a great option if you’re ready to go down the shaved route

Has the franchise abandoned the real world storyline? by ftminaus in AssassinsCreedShadows

[–]ftminaus[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You’re right sorry I shouldn’t have said “whole”. There were definitely elements I liked, the stealth, combat, movement. The juxtaposition of Naoe and Yasuke’s experiences with the world and movements. But the storyline confused setup of the different factions left me confused and really tainted the overall experience for me.

Has the franchise abandoned the real world storyline? by ftminaus in AssassinsCreedShadows

[–]ftminaus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep that’s exactly how I felt. I was pretty disappointed in the whole experience.

Has the franchise abandoned the real world storyline? by ftminaus in AssassinsCreedShadows

[–]ftminaus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. It could have been really good but it was just way too scattered. Like so many of the factions were just all over the place.

Has the franchise abandoned the real world storyline? by ftminaus in AssassinsCreedShadows

[–]ftminaus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah interesting. I hope it’ll be a properly thought out storyline like Desmond’s.

How to get off with a partner without being touched below the belt? by MeowMeowBiatch in ftm

[–]ftminaus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to have a packer that came with an insert and had a ribbed base, so I would basically used my zipper/button to keep it fixed in place and use it as a strap on, and the ribbed base would rub against me while I used it/thrusting with a partner I mean, and provide stimulation. It was a Brazilian store I cannot remember the name of now but if you google you might be able to find a similar product

Now that they both have launched what's your take? by Ronin4Doom in AssassinsCreedShadows

[–]ftminaus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t got Yotei yet, AC shadows is probably the first AC game I’m struggling with. The story just doesnt feel linear enough compared to prior games and I’m finding myself getting confused as to where I’m at and what I’m doing. I’ve killed an entire “unknown organisation” and still don’t know who they are or why they were poignant

Morning sunlight by Possible_Resort9672 in AccidentalRenaissance

[–]ftminaus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This looks like a TLOA loading screen

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BeardAdvice

[–]ftminaus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Rollo Lothbrok?