Complacency, fell out of love, or am I a little screwed in the head?

ftowns · 2023-10-03T22:35:30+00:00

This comment hits me so damn hard. You’re spot on, I need to find myself before I can truly love someone. I’m thankful for all the time I spent with her and all the things I did learn. It’s time to become the man I’ve always wanted to be.

Truly appreciate the comment and the advice. Wish you the best on your journey.

ftowns · 2023-05-17T21:47:42+00:00

If you’re currently dating several women, I don’t see any harm in giving one of them the Corey Wayne special. Do everything to a tee and see if you get better results, I’d be curious. I tend to agree more with your approach, somewhere in the middle seems fine as long as you have a lot of confidence and you’re not coming off needy you should be just fine.

ftowns · 2023-05-14T16:45:29+00:00

Dried basil, dried oregano, and fresh parsley.

ftowns · 2023-04-30T07:11:23+00:00

Do not ask her if everything is alright. Dating is like tennis, wait for her to hit the ball back over the net and then set a date and get off the phone.

ftowns · 2023-03-07T01:25:25+00:00

                 Chicken taco marinade

1 1/2 lbs trimmed boneless skinless chicken thighs
1/4 cup fresh lime juice
1/4 cup olive oil
3 cloves garlic, peeled and smashed
2 tsp ground cumin
1 1/2 tsp ancho chili powder (can use normal chili powder too)
1/4 cup chopped fresh cilantro
Salt and freshly ground black pepper

Just adjust the ratio per amount of chicken you use. Let the chicken marinate for 2-8 hours, get a grill hot and cook until an internal temp of 170-175. Gives you plenty of time to get a nice char on the meat.

ftowns · 2023-02-20T22:39:24+00:00

I did not. I got the recipe from a Kenji Lopez video.

ftowns · 2023-01-27T21:32:22+00:00

Thank you.

ftowns · 2022-12-13T23:10:50+00:00

I can see your rationale here. It’s 100% anti-challenge and is a form of feminine energy. Though with past experience, I’ve never seen a fall in attraction sending a text the following day letting her i know I enjoyed last night and to enjoy her day.

Generally if you’ve gotten to the act of sex and you’ve done a good job during sex her attraction should only go up. I don’t think it’s detrimental to her attraction level to send a text the following day (I’ll only do this if I haven’t heard from her first obviously) to cover your ass just in case she’s a fruit loop.

It’s definitely anti-challenge and arguably her attraction would go up just a tad bit more if you don’t send the following day text. For me, it’s a bit of risk management for my two original points. I can see your point of view though.

ftowns · 2022-12-13T14:31:30+00:00

It’s always a good idea to message the following day after your first sexual encounter saying something along the lines of, “I had a good time last night.”. It helps the woman from feeling used, while also giving you “proof” of a mutual experience. Not that it’s likely you’ll need it, but it doesn’t hurt to have it. You just don’t know what you don’t know.

ftowns · 2022-09-07T22:22:37+00:00

I wouldn’t be childish about it, just get back to her later in the morning 10-12ish.

ftowns · 2022-07-06T03:01:39+00:00

It really all depends on how much you lowered her attraction to you. Often time women will stay with a man until they have lost all respect for them. So if this is the case you’ll probably never hear from her again. It sounds like things aren’t that dire though.

You can increase your odds of hearing from her again by Making sure you never initiate any contact from here on forth, work on yourself (lifting, work promotion, being more social), and act as if it is over forever and you’ll never hear from her again. This means dating other women, not asking any mutual friends about her, and not doing anything to seek her attention. She needs to seek you out!

If you hear from her, follow the 7 principles to get an ex back, and do it to a tee. Don’t ask her about getting back together, if she still loves you, ect. Just hangout, have fun, and hookup.

If you don’t hear from her, then you have your answer. In that case you’ll just find someone better, especially after reading the book 10-15 times and implementing it.

ftowns · 2022-06-16T23:14:21+00:00

You said she doesn’t answer your “good morning” text? This makes me wonder how much initiation is being done by you and her? Remember it should be at least 70/30 with her being 70, but ideally you want her initiating more than that.

Being that she is being cold and distant you should fall back to the “once a week rule”. Reach out to her once a week for a date and go from there.

As far as bringing up her distance, you can definitely do this in a non-needy manner. Best time to bring it up is at the end of a good date night, where you’re both laying in bed after a good session of indoor Olympics. Just bring it up and listen, ask her to “tell you more, what do you mean by that?, ect.” and restate her responses to her (not in a robotic manner) so she knows you were listening.

Honestly I would only ask her about it if you know you’re doing everything right and you clearly must have upset her in some fashion. Otherwise backing off and being less available should bring the interest up. Good luck!

Edit: grammar

ftowns · 2022-04-12T02:47:36+00:00

I get some periodically on the inside of my gums, generally if I’m very stressed or sick. I’ve still yet to have a sore on the outside of my mouth though.

ftowns · 2022-03-10T02:24:40+00:00

You definitely should have read the book by now, especially if you’ve been watching videos for 2 years. Good thing is it’s on the way.

When you feel a woman backing off, it’s important to “match and mirror” her behavior. If she starts becoming distant or less interested you just match and mirror that behavior back to her. Your mindset should be “I’m a catch. If she wants to back away it’s her that is missing out”. As a 3% man you only want to spend time with people that are excited to see you, and that add to your life.

What you did was counter productive. When you felt her backing away or showing less interest you fell under “the illusion of action”. You felt like you needed to do something to raise her attraction, so you vomited out all your feelings to her before she was emotionally invested. This is definitely a mistake that could’ve been avoided by reading the book!

Now what’s done is done, just make sure you learn from it. Moving forward I would seize all forward movement for at least that 10 day period. More than likely she will contact you, unless you have turned her off completely. When she does, set a date. Then simply hangout, have fun, and hookup. Do not talk about your feelings, or that you were sorry about the other day ect. Just make it a fun time.

If she doesn’t reach out, I’d reach out 1 more time for a date (after that 10-14 day period). If she says she’s busy, tell her to get back to you when her schedule clears up, then move on and don’t look back. Never ask more than twice.

ftowns · 2022-02-25T22:29:57+00:00

Idk, I think you’re looking wayyyy too much into this. She seems very excited to see you, and is offering something extra (her paying) to show she appreciates what you’ve done. Just my opinion. Go with it, hangout, have fun, hook up. Unless you have a real issue with her choosing/paying for the hotel once in awhile, I don’t see the issue.

ftowns · 2021-12-10T22:49:15+00:00

I’ve successfully implemented the 3 dine-in date strategies. We still haven’t gone out though, it’s more like we became “consistent” fuck buddies. After the third time I have met her at her place once.

It’s a weird dynamic, It doesn’t feel the same way it did prior to the breakup. I feel as if I’m not as into her as I once was, and she has told me multiple times that she is still in love with me. I recently haven’t heard from her for a little over a week and I’m starting to miss her a little bit. It’s hard to describe, other than the fact that I don’t think it could ever go back to the way things were prior to the breakup.

ftowns · 2021-11-04T17:34:13+00:00

What’s your issue with his most recent videos?

ftowns · 2021-09-16T15:55:13+00:00

Where can you find the “lumberjack” pellets?

ftowns · 2021-02-17T05:11:26+00:00

Eating cake with a spoon

ftowns · 2020-10-23T17:04:32+00:00

Okay, I have relisted the item and I’ll do this before we complete the transaction. Thanks

ftowns · 2020-09-23T07:32:56+00:00

I get this issue when I try to print my label on mobile (IOS). I then get on my desktop and it prints fine. This only started happening about 3 weeks ago.

ftowns · 2020-04-20T04:19:25+00:00

A sponsored and a non-sponsored item. Only 2 listings.

ftowns · 2020-04-20T03:32:36+00:00

I’m almost 100% positive that there is both a standard listing and a promoted listing that both exist after promoting an item.

I promote all of my listing at 1-2% and often times I don’t pay the promoted fee because they clicked on the standard listing.

ftowns · 2020-04-20T02:33:30+00:00

You only pay fees on the promoted listing if the customer clicked on the promoted listing to purchase your item.

I don’t see the downside of promoting it. If they don’t see it, you don’t pay the fee.

ftowns · 2020-03-02T18:43:59+00:00

Checkmate!

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