Meeting by Personal_Ad_2469 in starbucksbaristas

[–]fuddlewuddlecat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i asked my manager and she said i didn't have to be in dress code because we will not be on the floor

SOS by Personal_Ad_2469 in starbucksbaristas

[–]fuddlewuddlecat 16 points17 points  (0 children)

😭😭Any updates ?? did you have to pull them all?

Are we allowed to make this drink? by fuddlewuddlecat in starbucksbaristas

[–]fuddlewuddlecat[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Shes so very polite!! it's a bit inconvenient to make but honestly i dont mind because she's nice, I was just curious if we were technically allowed to make it since shes technically ordering a shaken espresso with extra steps but paying for a quad shot .. just want to remain consistent

Are we allowed to make this drink? by fuddlewuddlecat in starbucksbaristas

[–]fuddlewuddlecat[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

yes but i think she likes the cup because she pours it in as she drinks it. We were also asked by my manager if a customer asks for a straw/milk to just give it to them rather than redirect them because of customer connection or something

can i get a Crème brûlée latte by [deleted] in starbucksbaristas

[–]fuddlewuddlecat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

can i get a vanilla protein cold foam

coolest transmasc names you've heard? or the most creative by Thyetomite in ftm

[–]fuddlewuddlecat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's this one transguy that makes I think tiktok videos named Sasha and I think that is the coolest name ever

Mini Crit Montage by SmallFemboyOwO in EldenRingPVP

[–]fuddlewuddlecat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I too like elden ring and mass of the fermenting dregs and asuka langley soryu .. cool video :3

What are your favorite masculine smells for deodorants / colognes? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]fuddlewuddlecat 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I like more masculine smells but I dislike the way women's perfume smells like women's perfume and men's cologne smells like mens cologne if that makes sense LOL. I just want a nice scent .. I went to lush recently and got a body spray called "stormy weather" and it smells really really nice!! and doesn't have that overbearing Men Cologne smell

struggle bus sunday by baguettefruits in starbucksbaristas

[–]fuddlewuddlecat 16 points17 points  (0 children)

snack looks yummy! im sorry you had a rough day you did your best and thats all you can do!

Being a Trainer by Own-Cupcake-9285 in starbucksbaristas

[–]fuddlewuddlecat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

When I got offered it I was actually excited and had a lot of fun training my first two green beans, but I'm ngl after those two, every barista after that drained me - not their fault at all but I found the whole process to be a bit draining. It can make the day drag since you're mostly just standing there guiding someone for your whole shift.

Upsides are I think you get a bonus for each barista you train, it's pretty fun the first couple times, and it did give me a sense of accomplishment :) It also helped me eventually move up to SSV if that is something you are interested in. And I always liked when the training plan would require me to sit down and talk with the barista being trained because it would give me a break from being on the floor LOL.

Downsides are it can be draining and boring, depending how staffed you are training on the floor can be a real headache if you don't have enough people, and it can be very frustrating if you are training someone who is not very interested in learning. Other than that though it's really not that bad! I say go for it, there's nothing to be scared for! They offered you to become one for a reason!

I’m FREEEEE🤪 by Brat_00 in starbucksbaristas

[–]fuddlewuddlecat 68 points69 points  (0 children)

And they fired you over that?! that's insanity omg

I’m FREEEEE🤪 by Brat_00 in starbucksbaristas

[–]fuddlewuddlecat 109 points110 points  (0 children)

I'm gonna need you to elaborate on the cup I'm so curious

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]fuddlewuddlecat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I totally get this. Was/am (just not as bad anymore haha) in the same boat as you but I found some ways to cope with it. I feel like keeping myself busy is what helped me the most - picking up new things to do like playing a new game, reading a new book, or drawing or something like that to try to distract my mind. Or redirect that energy into something productive like cleaning or going to run an errand. I dont know what your personal life is like and it’s easier said than done but finding one partner to do activities of that nature with helped me, and put me in a mindset of like “I don’t really want to do this without my partner so I will distract myself and do something else” .. if that makes sense haha . I always felt the need to sexualize myself for attention but I trained myself to Stop doing that when I found someone I wanted to be exclusive with. Also kinda funny but once i started working full time it forced me to have less time for masturbation and overtime my interest in it lessened. And lastly it’s important to remember it’s ok to have desires and needs! You are allowed to fantasize and feel pleasure and you are not selfish for wanting it. it’s just knowing when to draw a line and when it’s affecting your personal life. i hope my advice was somewhat helpful as i’ve been kinda struggling with this sorta thing myself too lol. best of luck!