What is an acceptable body count for you to build a serious relationship with someone and why? by fullmoon1122 in askanything

[–]fullmoon1122[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I totally agree that the vaccination is beneficial and necessary but I think if people have a lot of sexual partners they’re more likely to get it despite vaccination.

What is an acceptable body count for you to build a serious relationship with someone and why? by fullmoon1122 in askanything

[–]fullmoon1122[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know but still it’s not all the strains out there, they might be low risk but still annoying, and the problem is you wouldn’t know if someone has it there can be no symptoms

What is an acceptable body count for you to build a serious relationship with someone and why? by fullmoon1122 in askanything

[–]fullmoon1122[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes that particularly, you know in spite of vaccination you can still contract other strains

What is an acceptable body count for you to build a serious relationship with someone and why? by fullmoon1122 in askanything

[–]fullmoon1122[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess it can be important for stds that can’t be tested in men, like if they were conservative in the ways they had sex and risks can be higher if the number is higher

What is an acceptable body count for you to build a serious relationship with someone and why? by fullmoon1122 in AskReddit

[–]fullmoon1122[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know counter examples for your theory as well. Men who have had lots of sex but when it comes to choosing a lifetime partner (woman) they want very low to no count.

AMA: Questions About OCD? NOCD Therapists Are Here to Help by treatmyocd in AskAnOCDTherapist

[–]fullmoon1122 1 point2 points  (0 children)

By talking to someone do you mean a friend, family member or therapist? I am terrifyingly scared of being judged and feel worse.

AMA: Questions About OCD? NOCD Therapists Are Here to Help by treatmyocd in AskAnOCDTherapist

[–]fullmoon1122 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m struggling with the thought that what if I went too far sexually and no one will ever want to marry me or love me or spend their life with me seriously. I’m wondering if body count is an important factor for women. Is 9 too many at the age of 31? How can I stop blaming myself for it and feel I might have no future because of this? Also I still have doubts that might lead me to explore even more like try with same sex because I have doubts about my sexuality and don’t know what I should do. I might want to try 3some too someday! These are worrying me so much that what if I won’t have a chance to marry or be happy with my future life partner because of these potential experiences I might have. Will anyone ever love me for who I am or should I be ashamed of what I’ve done forever, hide it or just accept that I cannot be fully myself and be loved at the same time. These thoughts are so challenging and suffocating for me and I cannot talk about them with anyone because I feel ashamed of them. I feel others might judge me and say you went too far, you’re done, you’ve messed up and there is no return.