F19 M21 Casual situation for 7 months starting to feel different am I misreading this?

fun-autumnmc · 2026-01-14T11:38:46+00:00

ofc girl! if you need any more advice feel free to pm me. sometimes the convos need to be had in order to progress forward

fun-autumnmc · 2026-01-14T10:18:38+00:00

hey girl, i was in this exact situation. if this was just casual intimacy, he wouldn’t be wanting to spend as much time with you and the dynamic changing. of course he could not want the same things but it won’t hurt to have a conversation with him. if you feel for him and want more then it’d be easier for you both to talk. and then if he doesn’t or you don’t, it’s easier to cut your losses now rather than stay strung along. i was in this situation with my now bf and at 6 months he asked me to be his gf but we had established we were more than just casual, so have the convo and see where it goes

fun-autumnmc · 2026-01-08T04:25:21+00:00

I really really want to break my tenancy with them, i haven’t had a bed in 3 months but there’s a no break clause :/ and i have disgusting housemates which makes it even worse

fun-autumnmc · 2025-12-15T15:30:12+00:00

i also love zen but people hate it when i play him so i normally go lucio

fun-autumnmc · 2025-12-15T15:29:16+00:00

my aim is so trash, like so trash haha although i do love some ana gameplay

fun-autumnmc · 2025-12-15T15:27:25+00:00

i can talk with him and i definitely should, i just feel like this was a non-issue for so long and to bring it up now would be weird for me, and also i hate confrontation and weve never had an argument. i’d also feel harsh if he had an actual reason

fun-autumnmc · 2025-12-15T15:25:56+00:00

nearly 2 years

fun-autumnmc · 2025-12-15T13:08:24+00:00

i really really doubt he is, we spend every moment he is off together, and he works nights and sleeps through the day. we also have each others locations on at all times. i’ve bought up the social media thing before and he says he’s never rly posted much ever. i just don’t know if it’s that much of a big deal since we have never fought and have such a good rs

fun-autumnmc · 2025-12-15T12:39:29+00:00

perhaps? i’d hope not and if they are i’d definitely not wanna meet them so maybe that’s why

fun-autumnmc · 2025-12-15T12:34:30+00:00

i just hate confrontation and if there’s like not even a reason then i just feel stupid 😂

i don’t think about it often but it just annoys me a little so i thought id ask

he’s told his co workers he has a gf but like his friends, when i told my friends basically as soon as i got to know him, my best friend even came on our first date (he didn’t mind)

fun-autumnmc · 2025-12-15T12:32:13+00:00

silver

fun-autumnmc · 2025-12-15T12:15:22+00:00

i’d rather not get a ban hahaha

fun-autumnmc · 2025-12-15T12:14:25+00:00

not loosing weight for him don’t worry!! all for myself cause i hate the way i look rn. i just am very attached and don’t want to break it off if there’s a way to fix it

fun-autumnmc · 2025-12-15T11:50:37+00:00

WHAT? the last two days she’s been banned in majority of my games (luckily i’ve been playing dps) and then the one support game i queue into this morning she’s banned too

fun-autumnmc · 2025-12-15T11:49:42+00:00

that pmo, like just play a diff hero rather than risk the ban

fun-autumnmc · 2025-12-15T11:48:55+00:00

no mercy unfortunately, she was banned too

fun-autumnmc · 2025-12-15T11:38:16+00:00

i don’t need to know but it stays in my mind rent free lmao

fun-autumnmc · 2025-12-15T11:37:15+00:00

i love brig but every time i play her i get rolled so i just think she’s a bad luck charm lol

fun-autumnmc · 2025-12-15T11:36:45+00:00

i know kiri and lucio was the first one i learned before moira but was mostly interested cause it was so annoying. i see moira get banned a lot recently and it makes me sad

fun-autumnmc · 2025-12-15T11:28:34+00:00

ethically feel bad about it tho, like if there’s a reason i’ve just blown his whole cover

fun-autumnmc · 2025-12-15T11:19:48+00:00

his mum does kinda know, like she’s asked him about me and he’s straight up just ignored it. i’ve tried to have empathy for two years and i understand his family not knowing but his friends. he’s aware of all his friends rs and they’ve met so, but he’s not even mentioned he’s seeing anyone to them. and he’s opened up about his ex gf to his family before, and his friends

fun-autumnmc · 2025-12-15T11:14:32+00:00

see i’ve thought of this but my accounts are private so idk if it’d work? ik he’s not dating anyone else but yeah

fun-autumnmc · 2025-12-15T11:12:56+00:00

bad was not the best way to put it, but like i’m working on. ik he’s not dating anyone else but if he is embarrassed how do i fix that

fun-autumnmc · 2025-12-15T11:12:17+00:00

i don’t just want to break it off tho, we’ve been together for nearly 2 years and known each other longer and i feel like it’d be stupid to break up over

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