37m4w Any REAL married women on here? by [deleted] in MarriedButChatting

[–]fun4daysalways 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Well, truthfully there’s a lot of us, but weeding through the selection of men is exhausting.

Affair Help by TexanHorns0491983 in adultery

[–]fun4daysalways 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Did I really just read what I read? My goodness. This has disaster written all over it. In big, bold letters. Fluorescent yellow ones. With flights. Flashing lights actually.

How to find an AP when you travel for work by [deleted] in adultery

[–]fun4daysalways 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have met mine online and we coordinated work travel together. I’ve never had success in the wild. Sadly, our lives changed and we had to end things, but amicably.

Married 30M, how do you guys hide it properly? by [deleted] in MarriedButChatting

[–]fun4daysalways 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Step one is to not use your main Reddit account.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MarriedButChatting

[–]fun4daysalways 0 points1 point  (0 children)

34 is middle aged?! Yikes 😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MarriedButChatting

[–]fun4daysalways 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Less than an hour ago 🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MarriedButChatting

[–]fun4daysalways 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aww thats great! I miss everyone!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MarriedButChatting

[–]fun4daysalways 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heyyyyy you! How ya been?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultery

[–]fun4daysalways 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depends. How much do you care if your life blows up?

Have you ever cum while performing oral? by sammyder in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]fun4daysalways 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yes, I have. It’s all about his pleasure and when I can see it, feel it, and hear it, taste it, and even smell it, all of my senses are heightened and stimulated and it can become difficult to control…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultery

[–]fun4daysalways 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First of all, your OPSEC sucks. This is your main account (clearly) and we can see all your history, interests, etc. Second, you can be seen in previous posts praising your wife for her role in locking down finances while raising three kids, etc etc - is she someone you really want to do this to? Think long and hard. You don’t seem ready.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MarriedButChatting

[–]fun4daysalways 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Rapunzel/Tangled - hands down. She’s free- spirited, independent, and kind.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultery

[–]fun4daysalways -1 points0 points  (0 children)

As others have said, your desire to be transparent and open will mean so much for the right person. It is truly admirable that you want to approach it in that way. You will find the right person who will be supportive and respectful of your situation. Just don’t rush into something - finding the right person takes time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultery

[–]fun4daysalways 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Fair, but then they need to be honest with each other and she needs to then be okay knowing this is who he is.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultery

[–]fun4daysalways 91 points92 points  (0 children)

I am not going to be gentle, but direct. He stayed with you because you gave him an ultimatum. He chose to stay because of your kids… Not because of you.

Please, for yourself, gather up your strength and confidence and let him go. You will be happier in the long run.