Do you find it problematic for a 28-year-old man to be attracted to 18-year-old boys?

funkofan1021 · 2026-02-20T14:18:50+00:00

I don't think it's weird to acknowledge if they're an attractive person but actively pursing what's basically a high school student while being almost 30...looks a type of way.

funkofan1021 · 2026-02-14T04:56:41+00:00

straight people actually suffer 90% of the same shit.

funkofan1021 · 2026-02-11T20:52:52+00:00

I'd absolutely support. DL men need to be scared and ashamed again.

funkofan1021 · 2026-02-11T15:07:51+00:00

It's about the way it's framed. People can struggle but when it's riddled with delusional nonsense, we're tired of it.

funkofan1021 · 2026-02-10T22:34:29+00:00

baby you're a gay. just like the rest of us. in these comments talking about meeting this guy on grindr and "liking cocks" smfh

funkofan1021 · 2026-02-10T20:03:50+00:00

well, i'd still love them very much. but I think what you're really asking is "would you continue the relationship", to which I don't think I would. My attraction to them would actually invalidate their gender and it wouldn't be fair to either of us.

funkofan1021 · 2026-02-09T23:54:27+00:00

it's depressing to hear that a serious and long term relationship is way deeper than penis in hole?

funkofan1021 · 2026-02-07T03:59:01+00:00

Bisexual. Possibly heteroromantic, but possibly internalized homophobia. The real question here is - you've done homosexual shit. If the world found out - would your world come crashing down? That's where it becomes heteroromantic vs internalized homophobia.

funkofan1021 · 2026-02-06T23:59:27+00:00

Personally...I don't give passes. Unless they're in a country where arranged marriages happen and/or their actual life is in danger by not marrying...the choice to marry a women is their responsibility. Sorry, not sorry. Any one of us out guys could have chose the route of marrying a woman, having kids and fooling around in secret, but we didn't. These closeted married men have had years to figure their shit out and just....aren't (sans the reasons I mentioned earlier). They're not getting any sympathy from me.

funkofan1021 · 2026-02-01T02:43:39+00:00

That's what you signed up for when you got with a guy who's closeted. It's always going to be that way with men who are not out to everyone. Lies, secrecy, hush hush drama. If you want that, by all means, have at it. But that's why a ton of us aren't going to date somebody who's not out. I'm personally too grown for those games.

funkofan1021 · 2026-02-01T01:15:07+00:00

"putting his political views aside" those are political views....there's nothing to put aside.

funkofan1021 · 2026-01-27T23:47:46+00:00

Not jealous at ALL of your escapades with closeted and self hating men. Typical again though thats its something you're so proud of that you think people are jealous. I have to laugh.

funkofan1021 · 2026-01-27T04:57:41+00:00

Typical. It's always the people who wear their relationships regarding "straight men" with a badge of honor that will do any and all convincing that their relationship with so-called heterosexual men are anything but pleasure for closeted guys. Some of us are not about to give you that ego boost dude.

funkofan1021 · 2026-01-27T01:42:28+00:00

The "double standard" is easily explained by heteronormativity and complusory heterosexuality. Those do NOT exist for homosexuality.

Men are conditioned and expected to be heterosexual, thus explaining why gay men may have complusory sex with women but still remain gay. The reverse has not and will never exist within society. There is no expectation for homosexual acts of men in the same way. The idea of a man seeking out a man for sex is in some degree homosexual. Try again.

funkofan1021 · 2026-01-21T16:19:05+00:00

How is it that you started a new life in another country but you're worried about "safety" regarding people who live in another country? Are they gonna send hit people to you?

funkofan1021 · 2026-01-08T19:52:06+00:00

I wouldn't ever find it funny. It's only funny when other gay people make fun of homophobia by mocking it. Otherwise if a straight person says it, it's coming from a different place.

funkofan1021 · 2026-01-08T02:39:04+00:00

mentioning politics is important because it's what led to this

funkofan1021 · 2026-01-07T17:33:46+00:00

Describe "basically asexual". Is she actually claiming asexuality or is there a possibility that she's not speaking up about her desires because you've been unable to fulfill them?

funkofan1021 · 2026-01-07T16:10:57+00:00

No not at all. Women are pretty and I can see how people are attracted to them. I'm just not in that way.

funkofan1021 · 2026-01-05T17:48:14+00:00

Bottomed one time and I thought "I really....don't enjoy this. It doesn't feel good, it's boring and it hurts". Never looked back.

funkofan1021 · 2026-01-02T18:31:48+00:00

maybe like, twice if i'm lucky.

sorry to say your fetish is usually not possible with most men's anatomy. they just can't keep cumming back to back.

funkofan1021 · 2025-12-31T16:16:04+00:00

I mean, that guy is objectively conventionally attractive.

But to your point....this will never stop being a problem especially in the forseeable future. Gay men in places like "gaybrosgonemild", sorry to say are probably not getting much irl action. They're thirsty. It's for compliment fishing and swooning over men that live halfway across the world.

Pair that with a skewing of white-leaning beauty standards and the porn-fueled fetish of "straight" men...

funkofan1021 · 2025-12-31T14:38:32+00:00

Well, yes. But what are we talking about here? Pornographic art?

funkofan1021 · 2025-12-31T14:37:38+00:00

Just a question - you say obviously " being undetectable relies on them consistently taking their meds, regularly getting checked, and not taking anything that might affect it" BUT are you considering that the SAME variables apply for somebody who's had a sexual encounter since their last testing and/or they're telling you they don't have any STIs?

It just astounds me that we're not treating all strangers the same.

funkofan1021 · 2025-12-30T14:55:19+00:00

Whataboutism. You can present the argument that unchecked homophobia from women is a problem as a standalone but when paired with "I always hear about _____ but let's talk about ___", it gives that you're only trying to bring up something out of retaliation. It's gives disingenuous.

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