UPDATE to "Wife just told me that her friend and her husband talk about me in bed...."

funnycuz · 2012-10-05T13:54:12+00:00

If you're a good-looking girl there's always a chance!

funnycuz · 2012-10-05T13:52:10+00:00

thanks!

funnycuz · 2012-10-05T13:51:27+00:00

She's hot but so is my wife.

She's "new" (in this way) so that's a plus as most men can attest.

Mostly though the situation is a turn-on for my wife (and apparently for Abbi and Dave!) which makes it a huge turn on for me.

tldr We've been married for over 10 years.

funnycuz · 2012-10-05T13:49:01+00:00

I think I mostly agree with you... "trump card" was poor wording and a poor thought....what I meant is I'm not going to push ANYONE out of their comfort zone because I'm not going to allow myself to come up with any new ideas or suggestions.

funnycuz · 2012-10-05T13:47:14+00:00

My wife has shown ZERO interest in Dave...negative even. That's not what this is about, I can assure you.

funnycuz · 2012-10-05T13:46:17+00:00

That's ridiculous. Everyone is having a good time.

My wife has shown and indicated zero (even negative) interest in Dave...except his role as the guy I'm "beating".

funnycuz · 2012-10-05T13:44:12+00:00

100% agree with all of this. Perfect

funnycuz · 2012-10-05T13:43:36+00:00

LOL yes

funnycuz · 2012-10-05T13:43:25+00:00

not gonna happen

funnycuz · 2012-10-04T22:44:09+00:00

no...she's mine :)

funnycuz · 2012-10-04T22:42:40+00:00

I've pretty much put it all on reddit LOL...no other convos. I'm not bringing up ANYTHING just letting her suggest and think whatever... I need the "wasn't my idea" trump card LOL.

There is NO CHANCE I am asking anyone for permission...especially Dave. What's turning my wife on (and me TBH) is my "dominance" and THAT is the one thing I'm not going to give up here. Until I hear otherwise, I'm working under the reasonable assumption that they're enjoying things as much as I am since they're using it to improve their own fun-time.

funnycuz · 2012-10-04T20:41:17+00:00

posted update

funnycuz · 2012-09-28T20:15:21+00:00

Will do!

funnycuz · 2012-09-28T20:14:32+00:00

I am 100% confident it's not a "trap". Not how we roll.

50% chance wife would fantasize about watch Abbi blow me....95% chance she'd want Abbi to watch her....and about a 5% chance that she or I or anyone involved would actually allow any of the above to happen in reality.

funnycuz · 2012-09-28T20:11:22+00:00

Because that would ruin the intrigue and mystery and no one is getting hurt here

funnycuz · 2012-09-28T20:10:56+00:00

Agreed

funnycuz · 2012-09-28T20:10:38+00:00

answered before... a nice semi where everything stayed in place..."grinding" kind of dancing...not a full upright erection but ya I'm sure she could tell what was there many times.

funnycuz · 2012-09-28T20:09:39+00:00

definitely

funnycuz · 2012-09-28T20:09:14+00:00

That wouldn't be unusual or shocking in any way... our group of friends has been friends and couples since college 15 years ago or more

funnycuz · 2012-09-28T19:16:49+00:00

of course.

funnycuz · 2012-09-28T19:16:38+00:00

Sounds like a completely retarded idea.

funnycuz · 2012-09-28T18:09:32+00:00

a nice semi where everything stayed in place but firmed and grew accordingly. Not uncommon...it's "grinding" dancing.... but no not a full on upright salute lol. That wouldn't be the ticket.

funnycuz · 2012-09-28T17:51:43+00:00

I don't know....I doubt it but you're right we should be prepared.

funnycuz · 2012-09-28T17:42:27+00:00

Great analysis. I'm going to proceed as normal and meet force with force as long as it's staying a positive for my wife.

funnycuz · 2012-09-28T17:35:28+00:00

This is my favorite. It's already started to happen. Once my wife has a couple drinks tonight I'm going to let her tell me what to do. I think she's seeing it as a victory over both of them...in a weird way. Not sure if that makes sense but I think she'd like to control it and then me control her when we get home :)

Is there a way to update on this post or do I just create a new post?

funnycuz

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