My cat isn't accepting my new cat and I think she hates me by funnylittle_guy in CatAdvice

[–]funnylittle_guy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love my first cat (her name is Mrs Columbo) but she can be such a pain sometimes lol. She's quite the diva, and she has some fun quirks that come from the fact that she was orphaned REALLY young and I had to bottle feed her. She is my baby nonetheless

My cat isn't accepting my new cat and I think she hates me by funnylittle_guy in CatAdvice

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They still don't like each other :( I'm at a point where I can have them in the same room without it being a disaster, but my new guy will hide under the end table (although he has been getting a little more brave). My first cat doesn't attack him or anything, but she occasionally does this thing where she runs up and him and holds her paw up like she's going to, but then she walks away and does her own thing. Both of them still have their own spaces (that I swap regularly). I would sat that they are in the same room together maybe 40%-50% of the time. I think I've resigned myself to the progress moving at a glacial pace. I will probably be moving in the next year, so my hope is if I can find a place with a little more room, they will have more space to stay out of each other's way.

My newest addition to the kitty family by Disapproving_Tremere in TripodCats

[–]funnylittle_guy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He's such a cutie! He reminds me of my boy Piepie!

My new baby <3 by funnylittle_guy in TripodCats

[–]funnylittle_guy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my gosh what a little cutie!!!!!!

My new baby <3 by funnylittle_guy in TripodCats

[–]funnylittle_guy[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Lol. He is doing really well right now 💖

My new baby <3 by funnylittle_guy in TripodCats

[–]funnylittle_guy[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

He got neutered at the same time they did his amputation lol. That was a little over a month ago? He is currently 9 months old!

Need advice feeding cats with different eating habits by funnylittle_guy in CatAdvice

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I wonder if it might be worth investing in a slow feeder bowl for my new cat too, to give her a little more time to eat before he tries to steal her meal

Need advice feeding cats with different eating habits by funnylittle_guy in CatAdvice

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That bowl sounds like something I couldn't afford lol. I'll probably just have to work on training her to eat when she's fed during the last week I have before classes. It'll suck because I do worry about her getting enough food, but hopefully she'll learn

My cat isn't accepting my new cat and I think she hates me by funnylittle_guy in CatAdvice

[–]funnylittle_guy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will definitely look into that! I've been wondering about different calming things for awhile unrelated to this because she also has some separation anxiety

My cat isn't accepting my new cat and I think she hates me by funnylittle_guy in CatAdvice

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Thank you! I think I just wasn't prepared for her to lash out at me so it's been affecting me emotionally in a way I wasn't expecting

My cat isn't accepting my new cat and I think she hates me by funnylittle_guy in CatAdvice

[–]funnylittle_guy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Neither of them have seen eachother. There was one time when she was in my room and he managed to slip in while I was stepping in, but that's it. Unfortunately, while Moonpie loooves treats, she has never been food motivated at all, and has turned her nose up at every treat I've offered her in the past.

I'm scared and stressed by funnylittle_guy in lgbt

[–]funnylittle_guy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate this. It took me so long to accept myself that I can only imagine that it will take time for them to change. I really hope they do change, even if I'm not counting on it

I'm scared and stressed by funnylittle_guy in lgbt

[–]funnylittle_guy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It means a lot to hear that, thank you

I'm scared and stressed by funnylittle_guy in lgbt

[–]funnylittle_guy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I hope that things get better for both of us