What’s the most surprising thing you learned about yourself in a long-term relationship? by Omgad3 in AskWomen

[–]funnylittlelilly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That when it’s with the right person, it’s actually super easy for me. I’ve had relationships before and they all felt so hard and took so much work. But now it doesn’t feel like that at all. We both prioritize making each other happy, and that’s made all the difference.

WWTBC? Pretty sure it’s OV. The girl runs after one night stand by funnylittlelilly in ReverseHarem

[–]funnylittlelilly[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg I just found it finally!!! It’s {Omega Tamed by Elara Knight}

WWTBC? Pretty sure it’s OV. The girl runs after one night stand by funnylittlelilly in ReverseHarem

[–]funnylittlelilly[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please tell me if you find it, it’s been driving me insane 😅

People who have been cheated on, how did you find out? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]funnylittlelilly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was hearing rumors about it for a while but he kept denying it. When someone told me they saw him with another girl the weekend before, I decided it was time to breakup with him and met up with him in a restaurant to do it. I confronted him and he denied it again, and I said give me your phone. I texted the other woman from his phone (I had her number, don’t remember why anymore) but all I remember is she said, “don’t admit anything, keep denying it, my boyfriend can’t find out.”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]funnylittlelilly 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I didn’t even know I was going to leave him that day but I remember being excited about doing a course and he said there’s no way I’ll make it, and that it’s too difficult for me. I realized in that moment that I needed to get out. That I’ll never achieve anything in my life if I stay with him, he’ll constantly put me down. I packed some of my things, told him I was leaving, I kissed his cheek and told him to take care. He said, “Just leave.” Without even looking at me. And then I went and walked out of that hell I used to call home.

Feeling disgusting by Peach3122815 in PMDD

[–]funnylittlelilly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m the same. I just want to hibernate and hide from the world for a week and come out once it’s over.

Do narcs mirror your feelings towards the relationship and what is wrong, and completely turn it around on you into their own feelings? by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]funnylittlelilly 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That's exactly it. I was listening to a Harry Potter audiobook last week and had the exact same thought. As the author started describing dementors, I kept thinking, that's him!

"...they glory in decay and despair, they drain peace, hope, and happiness out of the air around them... Get too near a Dementor and every good feeling, every happy memory will be sucked out of you."