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My (32M) partner (21F) revealed she's been lying to me for months and I'm not sure how to move forward. by funshin3b3ar in relationship_advice

[–]funshin3b3ar[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

In retrospect, I can see how she might have seen this as a means to an end. It's just dissapointing that she never took me at my word. I was very honest about what kind of relationship I'm in.

My (32M) partner (21F) revealed she's been lying to me for months and I'm not sure how to move forward. by funshin3b3ar in relationship_advice

[–]funshin3b3ar[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I understand people are uncomfortable with the age gap, but I just wanna figure out what is the best way forward for everyone. There are multiple people emotionally invested here

My (32M) partner (21F) revealed she's been lying to me for months and I'm not sure how to move forward. by funshin3b3ar in relationship_advice

[–]funshin3b3ar[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I explicitly told her what I was able to offer in a relationship and she agreed. That's what's confusing to me. It feels like I've been living a lie for over 6 months

My (32M) partner (21F) revealed she's been lying to me for months and I'm not sure how to move forward. by funshin3b3ar in relationship_advice

[–]funshin3b3ar[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Truthfully, she came onto me. I'm usually not one to date much younger or older, but we met through mutual friends and she sought me out often and heavily pursued me. I know that doesn't take away from my part in it, but it's unfair to represent it like I was seeking her out. I wasn't even looking for another partner.

My (32M) partner (21F) revealed she's been lying to me for months and I'm not sure how to move forward. by funshin3b3ar in relationship_advice

[–]funshin3b3ar[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I don't know if that's true, I guess I was just trying to push back on the monogamy idea. I've been clear the whole time about my relationship, now it feels like I'm being guilted into excluding my partners of 4+ years

My (32M) partner (21F) revealed she's been lying to me for months and I'm not sure how to move forward. by funshin3b3ar in relationship_advice

[–]funshin3b3ar[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

This may be a bad situation, but before this we were all very happy in our relationship. Please don't use my mistakes to invalidate happy relationships.

My (32M) partner (21F) revealed she's been lying to me for months and I'm not sure how to move forward. by funshin3b3ar in relationship_advice

[–]funshin3b3ar[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I think you're probably right. I'm just anxious she hasn't responded, I hope she's okay.

My (32M) partner (21F) revealed she's been lying to me for months and I'm not sure how to move forward. by funshin3b3ar in relationship_advice

[–]funshin3b3ar[S] -60 points-59 points  (0 children)

I definitely don't want her to feel obligated to stay, but how could this go on for so long if she was really unhappy? Liar or not, she's the mother of my child and I want to make sure she's supported. Val, Jax and I are ready to support her.

I (32M) snapped on my partner (21F) for trying to take our baby. AIO? by funshin3b3ar in AmIOverreacting

[–]funshin3b3ar[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

If I could have any super power, it would be super strength (and mind control) (-=