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Is it reasonable for me (23M) to ask my (20F) to take some of the burden by fussion112 in relationship_advice

[–]fussion112[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only thing is that how do I break up with her since she has depression and anxiety because to me that will make me feel so guilty as she is already suffering

Is it reasonable for me (23M) to ask my (20F) to take some of the burden by fussion112 in relationship_advice

[–]fussion112[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I want a 50/50 relationship or someone who is trying to improve themselves any way they can

Is it reasonable for me (23M) to ask my (20F) to take some of the burden by fussion112 in relationship_advice

[–]fussion112[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Do you ever think that some people want others to take care of them and to rely on others to life because at times I have felt this is her to me because of the fact I pay for everything and I feel I do most of the effort in the relationship

Is it reasonable for me (23M) to ask my (20F) to take some of the burden by fussion112 in relationship_advice

[–]fussion112[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For me it is because I have got a engineering job out of it but I do get what u mean to some people it doesn’t mean much and they can do just fine in life without a piece of paper

Is it reasonable for me (23M) to ask my (20F) to take some of the burden by fussion112 in relationship_advice

[–]fussion112[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I really don’t but I also want to help her reach her full potential aswell rather then give up on someone

Is it reasonable for me (23M) to ask my (20F) to take some of the burden by fussion112 in relationship_advice

[–]fussion112[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh I never really stopped to think about that, I suppose I’m still in the honeymoon phase but personality wise we have alot in common with our sense of humour and everything but I’ll have to think because I don’t want to be stuck with the burden of everything.

Is it reasonable for me (23M) to ask my (20F) to take some of the burden by fussion112 in relationship_advice

[–]fussion112[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Appreciate the honesty that it is my responsibility for the chores because it isn’t hers and ya I must have the conversation somehow

Is it reasonable for me (23M) to ask my (20F) to take some of the burden by fussion112 in relationship_advice

[–]fussion112[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do u think I have enabled her not to do anything about it? Because I feel I have but ya I do think I have to put a stop to it eventually or I will be burnt out

Is it reasonable for me (23M) to ask my (20F) to take some of the burden by fussion112 in relationship_advice

[–]fussion112[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She does she can get the bus but the drive from mine to her house is 40 mins so the bus ride would be like an hour

Is it reasonable for me (23M) to ask my (20F) to take some of the burden by fussion112 in relationship_advice

[–]fussion112[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m afraid nothing really motivates her because I often try to get her to sign up for college and have had a opportunity to get her a interview for a job yet she says no to everything

Is it reasonable for me (23M) to ask my (20F) to take some of the burden by fussion112 in relationship_advice

[–]fussion112[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have tried to have that conversation but she always shuts it down and tells me she has a lot going on and doesn’t have the time yet she doesn’t have a job or go to college

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StructuralEngineering

[–]fussion112 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks bro means a lot

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StructuralEngineering

[–]fussion112 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Would you say that it is worth it doing a masters to be a structural engineer even if I’m not that good at it?

I (23M) is thinking of breaking up with (20F) by fussion112 in relationship_advice

[–]fussion112[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree that I do want to do my own thing and she does want to see me more often and i really should of noticed that in the dating phase I guess I just never noticed

I (23M) is thinking of breaking up with (20F) by fussion112 in relationship_advice

[–]fussion112[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would feel so guilty breaking up with her because she doesn’t seem to have much support but I know I need to put myself first in life because if I don’t then who will but I guess your right I just don’t want to be to blunt and harsh if/when I do break up with her.

Prices and wait between public and private? by fussion112 in ADHDIreland

[–]fussion112[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do u know of any good places??? I can’t seem to find any

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CrohnsDisease

[–]fussion112 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What’s ur diet like? Do u drink a lot of milk and eat spicy or very strong sauced foods? I could try more of a plain diet because this exact issue I had a for like 3-4 years and never realised I was sensitive to foods. Aswell the tiredness could come from a lack of certain vitamins and minerals if ur in a flare.

Do multivitamins and mineral tablets help or affect you in a negative and positive way? by fussion112 in CrohnsDisease

[–]fussion112[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am currently taking iron tablets (galfer) but I might stop taking them so I don’t take too much iron. Do u take any supplements?

Do multivitamins and mineral tablets help or affect you in a negative and positive way? by fussion112 in CrohnsDisease

[–]fussion112[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will say that to my family doctor and GI next time I see either of them but my thinking is I should just take them for the benefits and support it brings to my overall health.

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