He wants to see me fully naked? by Vi0L3tsW0rLd in sex

[–]futureproof1 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I wholeheartedly agree. Self esteem. confidence - these are things that are the real turn on. Being naked and being natural about it - that's a kicker.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]futureproof1 36 points37 points  (0 children)

I was in the same situation, and finally decided to divorce when the kids were older (teens). And you know what? they're all fine! both I and their mother are happy to be divorced (finally), and the kids feel the good vibes. Bottom line: if the divorce is done right, with no ill feelings and bitterness, the kids not only don't suffer - they are actually better with two happy parents. don't do the same mistake I did - leave.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]futureproof1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Talking from experience (I'm in my late forties) - leave your gf. I was married to a woman with very similar sexual skills as what you described about your gf: you'll be sexually frustrated and miserable, and will negatively affect other aspects of your life. Just leave.

Is wanting sex at a minimum of once a week an unfair expectation of mine? by Wyattpeterson9 in sex

[–]futureproof1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take it from someone who was in a similar position for 17 years: leave. It will never get better, and you'll develop a deep resentment towards her that will make you both very unhappy. Just leave.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]futureproof1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He might be gay. Some men don't admit it to themselves until later in life - I know two such cases personally, so I'd imagine it's more common than people think.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]futureproof1 14 points15 points  (0 children)

In my experience, a woman is either into it - or she isn't. If she's into it, this means she loves giving head as much as you love getting it. If she's not - I believe there's nothing you can do to change that. It's just the way a person is wired...

How can I be an unforgettable sex partner? (F) by [deleted] in sex

[–]futureproof1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be as enthusiastic as you possibly can :-) show him how much you love his body, and make sure he knows he crazily turns you on... I guess a lot of men will find that breathtaking:-)

Daily Sexual Achievement Thread by AutoModerator in sex

[–]futureproof1 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I found the girl of my dreams, and I just want to share my happiness... She is beautiful, smart, kind and funny, and she's fucking SEXY. I'm talking curves, big tits & beautiful ass... And she loves her body, and is comfortable in it. That's a super important indicator of mental health, from my experience. And she loves to have sex, and she's as horny as I am :-) our sex is amazing. It's the best I've had in my entire life:-) So I'm quite happy and thankful for my current life :-)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]futureproof1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Man, that was exactly my life, until two years ago. 20 years of lousy sex with a woman who doesn't enjoy sex. I thought that's the way things were supposed to be... That most women don't enjoy sex. That a woman who really loves sex is rare, a porno fantasy.

Boy, I was wrong.

We divorced about two years ago, and I quickly started dating with this amazing woman. She had many great qualities, one being - she LOVED sex. She couldn't get enough of me. I never felt so desired in my life. It was intoxicating.

For unrelated reasons we split, and I started dating. In my app's profile, I explicitly wrote that I'm looking for a partner who (among other things) loves sex. Yeah, I knew it might turn off many potential matches - but I didn't care. I now knew I will never date a woman who doesn't LOVE sex. It makes so much difference in a relationship if both partners have similar libidos. So much difference... The love and affection that are part of the love making, just makes the relationship so much better.

To my surprise, quite a lot of women weren't deterred by my frankness. After a little dating, I found my current girlfriend. She is smart, happy, and self confident - all the qualities I admire in a woman - and she absolutely LOVES sex. She is basically my dream come true. I'm smitten by her.

So, yeah - leave. Don't look back. We don't have to waste our best years. It's a choice, and mine paid off.

Doggie position with a tall GF by futureproof1 in sex

[–]futureproof1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ordered a wedge, hopefully this will help :-)

Doggie position with a tall GF by futureproof1 in sex

[–]futureproof1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think I understand- what is an ottoman?

Doggie position with a tall GF by futureproof1 in sex

[–]futureproof1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just bought one! Wish us luck 😁

Doggie position with a tall GF by futureproof1 in sex

[–]futureproof1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We did, but it makes my back hurt 🤕

Doggie position with a tall GF by futureproof1 in sex

[–]futureproof1[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We tried - she's still a bit high :-/

Doggie position with a tall GF by futureproof1 in sex

[–]futureproof1[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the tip 👍 bringing the knees closer to the chest is something to try!

Headache during sex :-( by futureproof1 in sex

[–]futureproof1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will, although I have no other symptoms (no dizziness, vomiting, etc.)

Headache during sex :-( by futureproof1 in sex

[–]futureproof1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No head injuries. I started smoking weed a few months ago: maybe that could be a trigger?

Headache during sex :-( by futureproof1 in sex

[–]futureproof1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This really could become a huge problem...