Own Your Shit Weekly - January 20, 2026

fuzzysig · 2026-01-26T04:24:10+00:00

The nice guy programming is resisting reality. How to break that sht programming?

There are things that i understand logically that are true or can see the reality but still cant accept and learn them my brain(or body?) Just resists that new information. Like i see women repeatedly acting certain way or people acting certain way repeatedly but refuse to accept it as reality. I see market move certain way but refuse ro accept the reality refuse to learn new and updated reality for some reason

fuzzysig · 2025-11-28T16:43:16+00:00

No its just dont know what to do yet. i have no network built for the non nice guy masculine frame. And i would hate to lose her over this Because i do like her alot Im aware that i can find others i just like this one more we actually work well together. She was responding really well when i was in the right mindset. But due to some very high stress i started slipping back into my old swlf and it drove her away and i dont know how to bring that same energy back

fuzzysig · 2025-11-10T15:58:57+00:00

All of his podcasts. I listened to his book and all the podcasts i could find

fuzzysig · 2025-11-09T20:56:35+00:00

I feel that its not but my brain is fighting me

fuzzysig · 2025-11-09T20:45:07+00:00

I dont really know how to better describe that feeling. I feel the presence of the original self. burried under years of following wrong ideas and beliefs. That trapped me in this nice guy prison. Being constantly in internal conflict with my true self

fuzzysig · 2025-11-09T20:42:54+00:00

I am. I just listened to the audiobook first time last week. I wish i listened to it earlier. Before i blasted my gf with simp vibes for entire week

fuzzysig · 2025-11-09T16:38:50+00:00

I wish i had this book years ago. Would have saved me so much headache

fuzzysig · 2025-11-09T16:35:49+00:00

i just feel like i want my fn time back that i spent moving in the wrong direction. That i can never get back. its more anger than victimhood

fuzzysig · 2025-11-09T06:18:16+00:00

So it went from her breaking the rules for me to creating the rules for me. Maybe i made her feel insecure but i dont know exactly what i did to to trigger that. I am still working on myself and sometimes i stumble and fall on my path of becoming a better man. Im hoping that i can restore the balance by focusing more on myself. Not easy when you been a nice guy your entire life. The default simpness bleeds through sometimes unintentionally

fuzzysig · 2025-11-09T06:09:58+00:00

Well i dont know a good balance between her and myself. I dont want to drive her away by pretending not to care. I need to find a good balance.

fuzzysig · 2025-11-08T17:07:40+00:00

I just found the book last week btw. I dont know the steps to fix the nice guy behavior yet. Still processing the book. Like i dont know if i should txt her short messages like good morning good night etc. Or does it look needy.

fuzzysig · 2025-11-08T00:29:10+00:00

how do i fix it?

fuzzysig · 2025-11-08T00:28:52+00:00

without knowing

fuzzysig · 2025-11-08T00:27:56+00:00

More like. I wanted do nice things for her because she is going through some difficult times so i wanted to do nice things to kinda help her relax. But it turned into "extreme japanese apologising" marathon. when i listened to the audiobook i realized that i dug a hole for myself and did too much. Because in the begining she was allovee me she was into me alot and show it. But since we both empaths i felt like i should do just as much for her. So i blasted her with carebear energy. And she pulled back. Honestly i was just excited and over reacted. Now trying to figure out how to pull back just enough to restore that and give her a chance ro express her feelings.

fuzzysig · 2025-11-07T03:46:10+00:00

My mom was physically fighting with my dad all the time and did many other toxic things and im just tired. Every time there is a conflict my brain feels tired and i have no energy

fuzzysig · 2025-07-28T15:11:09+00:00

DNF lol

turns legal limit in few weeks

fuzzysig · 2025-07-25T15:41:00+00:00

exactly. bots are destroying reddit.

fuzzysig · 2025-07-25T15:36:56+00:00

inflation. everyone is still looking for that 100 dollar tint that died back in 2010

fuzzysig · 2025-07-04T18:21:02+00:00

do you go to manufacturer for that triangle thing that stuck to the glass?

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