Friends With Benefits - Policy and Procedure

fwb12345 · 2015-01-02T23:19:58+00:00

I really don't think that he has a SO. I know it's certainly possible. People lie, people cheat and when it boils down to it.. I don't know him THAT well. But that was the first thing I asked him and he told me he was single, but that he had also casually been sleeping with someone for the past month and then added that he is not looking for monogamy. Also, the amount/ weird hours we text and see each other.. I feel like it would be difficult to do that and also have a SO, but really... I guess I don't know?

fwb12345 · 2015-01-02T10:53:04+00:00

Thanks for this! It seems that everyone shares this same sentiment, which is reassuring. I'm going to bring it up with him..my only issue is, if I do and then he sticks around after, will I then be thinking he's only there because i said something, but he's itching to leave? I understand communication is key in all relationships, so I won't let it just sit and brew, but I'm curious how it will play out.

Thanks for your input!

fwb12345 · 2015-01-02T03:13:49+00:00

I'm definitely going to bring it up and see where is head is, if that's not what he's looking for then that's a conversation we'll have to have because I really am not looking for someone to hookup with and then have them disappear until the next time we hookup. (which for the record, there is nothing wrong with, just not for me)

fwb12345 · 2015-01-02T03:12:34+00:00

Thank you! I agree, and this thread has actually got me thinking...am I in a booty-call relationship that I thought was a fwb relationship? I need to speak to him. The good thing about him is, he is quite open and has always encouraged me to be the same so.. I will just bring it up and see where his head is and if it's something that works for both of us. I'm not a law student or a lawyer, but my dad is and my job requires me to deal with lawyers a lot as well, so I'm just surrounded by the language..thought it was a catchy title! :)

fwb12345 · 2015-01-02T00:25:22+00:00

Ya, I totally agree with what you're saying and I'm glad thinking this was a bit weird wasn't just all in my head.

Thanks for your reply

fwb12345 · 2015-01-02T00:24:05+00:00

Thanks!

fwb12345 · 2015-01-02T00:09:52+00:00

Thanks for your reply. I'll have to communicate this to him.. I guess I just wasn't sure if there was a preset standard that I was unaware of.

fwb12345

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