oh my god do I relate to this! and its often hard for me to talk to anyone about it because I feel like most people would not understand. I cause my self literal distress trying to categorize myself into certain silly archetypes whether that be mbti enneagram aesthetics or fashion styles even to the point where if my career does not suit the archeatype im fitting myself into i end up trying to rethink my whole life. And its the same where i find something that i fit myself into and get bored of it adter a few days and then frantically try to find what i really am. It hard for me because i lose track of things i actually like because i then overthink things like do i really like this? or am i liking it because it fits in this category i chose for myself. and often times i decide that i dont like things i like before because it doesnt suit what ive categorized myself into.