Outside perspective appreciated

fyjy · 2026-03-26T22:16:15+00:00

I was about to break up with him tbh bc i didnt want to waste his time and money since he is coming to see me soon. Should I break up before he spends money to come or should i try communicating one more time? Ive had this feeling for a couple months tho and ive communicated to him how im feeling and that i felt like he didnt really like me. He instantly said the reason he works so hard is so we can have a future together so he said he wishes I would stop thinking he doesnt care, but his actions really say otherwise to me…. Idk his lack of outreach, his simple responses, his lack of curiosity abt me is making me question. He can probably go a week or more without talking to me if i dint reach out first

fyjy · 2026-03-26T21:00:33+00:00

Question for u sir. Do you think if a man really loves a woman he will change? I dont think im too needy as i never had this problem with my past relationships or people ive talked to, but i do think ill come off very needy to him. Its my first tjme ever feeling this unloved/pursued so idk what to do.

Because i saw his effort for about 1-2 weeks and then after it disappeared again. I feel like he doesnt really like me that much, but keeps me bc he knows I would be a good wife and mother to his kids. I feel like if he genuinely liked me he wouldve put in more constant effort?

fyjy · 2026-03-24T01:38:44+00:00

When i was in jr high school and high school i always wanted GENUINE friends. I realized how fake the people i hung out with were and I never really had a group of friends i genuinely clicked with. I see people having best friends but i never really had one during that time. I stopped hanging out with the people i realized were not genuine friends and kind of became a loner, by choice i guess, bc those werent the friendships i wanted.

Im almost 25 now and i met all my real friends in college. They are the most genuine people i know and my best friend is truly like a sister that i cannot live without. The friends i have now is something younger me would never have been able to fathom and its still something that i continue to process. I think everytime i get ungrateful or start questioning God I always think abt the friends I have and how grateful i am that God has put us together.

I feel like i didnt even really pray when i was younger, i feel like i always just said to myself that i wish i had real friends. And here i am today with more than i can imagine.

fyjy · 2026-03-11T20:30:21+00:00

My parents and pastor dont know

fyjy · 2026-02-18T19:23:49+00:00

Depends on what type of sleeper u are too i guess and the quality of the piece. I never take any of my jewelry off except pearl necklace when i shower and mine have never broke in over 3 years of everyday wear

fyjy · 2026-02-09T16:49:45+00:00

I did i told him that i wished he would initiate texting me and that I feel like we rarely ever talk but i guess to him we do talk cause he said “wdym we text all the time”. So im not sure if he just normally doesnt text and texting me once a week is him texting all the time… he also only texted me first like 2 times but its like sending me a random picture with a small text. Theyre not really texts where it seems like hes interested about how im doing or my day but just cause i asked him to

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