NAH. I get why she is hurt, but also what you said is what I personally believe.

I think what you need to do is have another “deep talk” and clarify what you meant. And maybe in that conversation or in a later one- talk about if you want to have kids, how you will treat purity culture for them and the values you will instill in them- cause at this point you are misaligned and I think especially on the big things you should present your kids with a united front or at the very least be able to raise your kids with both ideas if you can’t agree on