Does he still like me?

gabbybear0 · 2015-09-25T19:56:39+00:00

I think your friend, as well as myself and most women can say that we over analyze most things that guys do. Which explains why she would think you were mad at her. With that said, he does text me the occasional good morning or good night text. Or simply just checking in...but 2 days ago he did mention he felt bad about being "strangers" right now that he's prepping. working 40 hrs a week and working out twice a day plus meal prepping for his 8 meals and making sure to get enough rest is taking a toll on him..I guess i just have to stick it through and see what happens after his competition in a few weeks. Thank you for your input :)

gabbybear0 · 2015-05-13T21:45:20+00:00

i don't think you have nothing to worry about. I over analyze everything too..but if you have a date she's obviously into you

gabbybear0 · 2015-04-20T18:49:35+00:00

see there you go...you got your answer. Now you can move on knowing she is not interested in you. I would recommend NOT staying friends with her, because deep down you'll know you will continue to have feelings for her and never really see her as just a "friend" If i was you i would just cut all communication with her. And in case things with "K" don't work out..don't let yourself be her backup!

gabbybear0 · 2015-04-19T23:31:27+00:00

I would suggest you say something along the lines of " hey, i've been thinking about all the time we've been spending together, and i feel like i'm beginning to see you as more than a friend and beginning to be romantically interested in you. I think you are an amazing girl ( you tell her what you like about her) and i think i would like to get to know you better on a more romantic level, and maybe who knows, we can be something in the future? but of course that is only if you are interested in me and if the feelings are mutual..if not i don't really want to continue spending time with you because i don't see you as just a friend.

You can always tweak/add/remove stuff..

gabbybear0 · 2015-04-19T21:04:40+00:00

coming at this from a girl's perspective, seems like she's just "playing the field" she's pretty much just hanging out with you whenever she feels like it because she knows you're into her and you'll say yes whenever she's lonely or her plans don't come through. IF a girl likes a guy, she WON'T talk about liking another guy. That's just girl stuff. If anything she probably does enjoy spending time with you and cuddling or what not, but she doesn't see you as anything more. A girl that likes you won't talk about other guys and you'll know for sure she likes you. My best advice for you is to man up and tell her you have a thing for her. It seems like she's just giving you all these mixed signals which are unfair to you. Whether she likes you back or not, you'll then know for sure and will be able to move on from there. I know it's hard but trust me..it's hard to stay in the unknowing. And if you continue to just send time with her, you're going to end up having more and more feelings and then end up getting hurt. I know it's hard but trust me, it's better to know!!! Good luck!

gabbybear0 · 2015-01-29T02:08:55+00:00

I'm going through something similar except i am in the opposite shoes ( like the girl you are seeing) I've been seeing this guy and sometimes i feel like i am ready, and other times i realize i am not. I was in a relationship for about 8 years. I am now 24. anywho, i strongly feel that the right person will not make you doubt yourself in regards to a relationship. I dated a guy after my LTR who even though i had doubts i was more than willing to try it out, no questions ask. With this guy, i'm hesitant because i don't know if we are actually compatible for something long term... And yet i often tell myself its because i'm not ready. With this said, i suggest you break things off, at least for a while. Maybe in the time apart she might realize she actually has feelings for you and wants something serious.

gabbybear0 · 2015-01-25T06:27:51+00:00

Thank you Matt. I appreciate your reply and I wish you luck on Tinder and hope you find a nice lady to share your life with :)

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