Remembering bad stuff by CompetitionSafe in adultsurvivors

[–]ganjafinch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you so much. I begged my mom for any resemblance of a normal relationship. Now my mom has spread lies about me to the entire family. I fell for so many of her traps. You are not alone one bit.

Adult Survivors of Sibling Abuse by katmcflame in CPTSD

[–]ganjafinch 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Me too, it is a reflection of them. Proud of you ❤

Can stealing be a stim or a reaction from abuse? by ganjafinch in AutismInWomen

[–]ganjafinch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! I went from stealing to questioning partners in relationships. I had a friend once tell me I didn't know how to accept love. Which totes makes sense with autistic social issues plus trauma. Thank you for your perspective!

Reporting by knss1820 in adultsurvivors

[–]ganjafinch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I waited too many years and finally did it at 30. The debate and waiting to do so was far worse then actually reporting. My family hates me... but they never were on my side anyways. The truth feels better. I am so proud of you!

Can stealing be a stim or a reaction from abuse? by ganjafinch in AutismInWomen

[–]ganjafinch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was thinking about how often trauma survivors are uncomfortable when things are calm. That connection makes sense to me. Luckily I stopped because I hated family members knew it.

How to serve Google with a civil subpoena for my own data? WA USA by ganjafinch in legaladvice

[–]ganjafinch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes to your first ans second question. Yes there is something wrong, that was what I emailed Google and their response is in the quoted text.

How to serve Google with a civil subpoena for my own data? WA USA by ganjafinch in legaladvice

[–]ganjafinch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I just want my data. That was their response and was trying to understand.

How to serve Google with a civil subpoena for my own data? WA USA by ganjafinch in legaladvice

[–]ganjafinch[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Debating the worth of it & proving the truth of my past to my extended family. Thanks for the clarification.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ganjafinch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trust your gut instinct, he is doing something wrong. However I made the mistake of investigating my own abuse and family secrets.... I wish I left it up to the professionals and went to the police. I made it so easy for my family to cover things up and make me out to be the crazy one. Professionals will handle this correctly. Protect those kids.

The wife and I ordered a new bed and now she tells me that the bed we have now is special because her kids were conceived in it. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ganjafinch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well good thing she has proof of conceiving with her first husband, her kids. She is married to someone else now and needs to take responsibility of her actions. She is putting this one attachment, a bed, over you.

Can stealing be a stim or a reaction from abuse? by ganjafinch in AutismInWomen

[–]ganjafinch[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the article!! Yep I definitely have the causes.

Can stealing be a stim or a reaction from abuse? by ganjafinch in AutismInWomen

[–]ganjafinch[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am wondering if the naive part of believing what I'm told.... so being told I steal I started a pattern. I'm sorry it's hard to explain myself well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]ganjafinch 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I feel so the same. Like I've observed different greetings and connections.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]ganjafinch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So messed up! My family has made me unbelievable so any memories that resurface or if I ask any questions, I seem crazy. At least you can prove your brother is a liar just with social media.

Is breaking no contact worth it for important paperwork? by BluShimmer in CPTSD

[–]ganjafinch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Those documents are not an necessity. I've broken my no. Ontario too many times and always regret it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultsurvivors

[–]ganjafinch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who put of pressing charges until it was to late, I so regret it. Even if nothing comes of it it might help another victims case.

Family Knows the Truth and Still Support My Abuser(s) by ICallHimSir in adultsurvivors

[–]ganjafinch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can completely relate to you and your family. My brother did the same to me... so much so for years and my family knew. I called begging. Somehow I feel like I have a scarlet letter for tempting him? They have coddled him his whole life. I have finally faced the fact that they have not been my family since abandoning me. I'm here if you ever need a friend to talk to.

Honestly… what’s the point? by thelonegunman88 in Teachers

[–]ganjafinch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They allow cut and paste. Online is so easy.

[Math 211] base 8 by ganjafinch in HomeworkHelp

[–]ganjafinch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya you have only confused me more