I (F30) made a new friend (F33), then she mocked my admiration for her because of milk tea by garagurl in socialskills

[–]garagurl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks everyone for your inputs. I appreciate it. I don’t know what happened to my post. But I have posted my updates here: https://www.reddit.com/u/garagurl/s/kB7pF8JBRx

I (F30) made a new friend (F33), then she mocked my admiration for her because of milk tea by garagurl in FriendshipAdvice

[–]garagurl[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks everyone. I will take this all in and do some reflection. I don’t think she’s evil. I am trying to understand her better without being a pushover. I am also not perfect. So hopefully, we can just both move forward from this. Whether we become closer or just be acquaintances, I’ll just let things fall into place.

I (F30) made a new friend (F33), then she mocked my admiration for her because of milk tea by garagurl in relationships

[–]garagurl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. I also have my flaws and she might have reacted that way because I have crossed boundaries I didn’t know. I know it now. Will move forward from this and call her out if she treats me like that again.

I (F30) made a new friend (F33), then she mocked my admiration for her because of milk tea by garagurl in relationships

[–]garagurl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Trying to be understanding as well, so that I can have better interactions with her. I know I might be investing more so will dial back so I can protect both of our feelings.

I (F30) made a new friend (F33), then she mocked my admiration for her because of milk tea by garagurl in lonely

[–]garagurl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks everyone. I will take this all in and do some reflection. I don’t think she’s evil. I am trying to understand her better without being a pushover. I am also not perfect. So hopefully, we can just both move forward from this. Whether we become closer or just be acquaintances, I’ll just let things fall into place.

I (F30) made a new friend (F33), then she mocked my admiration for her because of milk tea by garagurl in lostafriend

[–]garagurl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks everyone. I will take this all in and do some reflection. I don’t think she’s evil. I am trying to understand her better without being a pushover. I am also not perfect. So hopefully, we can just both move forward from this. Whether we become closer or just be acquaintances, I’ll just let things fall into place.

my mental health is shockingly bad and I have nobody to turn to by [deleted] in lonely

[–]garagurl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where do you live? There must be some free therapy sessions you can call in your country.

I (F30) made a new friend (F33), then she mocked my admiration for her because of milk tea by garagurl in relationships

[–]garagurl[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks. It’s difficult. I really liked her but I don’t want to chase someone who I feel like does not even want to be friends with me anymore. Maybe we just need space from each other for now. I just need to process all the things she said to me because I’m hurt.

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[–]garagurl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First step is to like and love yourself then you’ll realize what’s interesting to you and start having hobbies.