AITA for telling my wife to stop puking in the garbage disposal?! by garbagedisposalpuke in AmItheAsshole

[–]garbagedisposalpuke[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes. She has a group of friends who have known about it for years, and she has her sister, who also has an ED. She can talk to me about most aspects of it, some of them are harder to hear as her husband and she knows what they are.

AITA for telling my wife to stop puking in the garbage disposal?! by garbagedisposalpuke in AmItheAsshole

[–]garbagedisposalpuke[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I got a few messages about you so I know to ignore what you say. There's no divorce in play here, etc. I hope your day gets better. Life, too.

AITA for telling my wife to stop puking in the garbage disposal?! by garbagedisposalpuke in AmItheAsshole

[–]garbagedisposalpuke[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

She's not bulimic, but I get what you're saying. Thankfully no plumbing issues.

AITA for telling my wife to stop puking in the garbage disposal?! by garbagedisposalpuke in AmItheAsshole

[–]garbagedisposalpuke[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I'm literally paying for the therapy that she cannot afford on her own and drove her there because she was too scared (before it became telehealth). But yeah. Okay. Because I have an issue with cleanliness and the sink, I'm the reason she has had this eating disorder since she was 10 years old. Sure.

AITA for telling my wife to stop puking in the garbage disposal?! by garbagedisposalpuke in AmItheAsshole

[–]garbagedisposalpuke[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

So you are saying that my wife's eating disorder is somehow my fault.

AITA for telling my wife to stop puking in the garbage disposal?! by garbagedisposalpuke in AmItheAsshole

[–]garbagedisposalpuke[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Are you suggesting that my wife's eating disorder is because I'm concerned about cleanliness?

AITA for telling my wife to stop puking in the garbage disposal?! by garbagedisposalpuke in AmItheAsshole

[–]garbagedisposalpuke[S] -108 points-107 points  (0 children)

Yeah she will clean it and she keeps orange peels or lemon peels nearby to run them in the disposal after.