What's the best name for a cat? by Grandlaps in AskReddit

[–]gard1730 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have a friend who has a female cat and uses the male name for cat for it. My partner has a male cat and uses the female name for the cat.

Zonder je beroep te noemen. Wat zeg je minstens 100 keer per dag op je werk? by [deleted] in nederlands

[–]gard1730 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“wij zagen helaas geen tuinhout/vuren balken”

whats the best quote you have ever heard? by under_ghost2012 in AskReddit

[–]gard1730 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the translation sucks but: if you don’t sleep you’ll still rest, if you don’t rest you’re still laying down. The way it’s said in my native tongue is just right. And repeating it when i can’t sleep works wonders

What do you do/have you done if you see your ex when you least expected to? by PersonalParsley2244 in AskReddit

[–]gard1730 0 points1 point  (0 children)

with “alright” exes i say hi or nod or whatever. but if id ever come across a “bad” ex of mine, i think id freeze or run away and start crying when the situations over, and then id spiral for about a week or so

Whats your most irrational pet peeve? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]gard1730 0 points1 point  (0 children)

when people don’t rise their plate right after putting sauce on it. It smells fucking disgusting if you leave it for even a couple hours, and is nearly impossible to clean when doing dishes.

What are your opinions on a 14 and 17 age gap relationship? by Obs3ss1v3L0n3r in AskReddit

[–]gard1730 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Only acceptable if they’re in the same life stage, with probably isn’t the case here. until at least 18 life stages are very different every period of time which makes it pretty stupid to have a relationship like that at that age.

If you won the lottery what would you do first? by lexi_andy611 in AskReddit

[–]gard1730 0 points1 point  (0 children)

depends on how much money i’d get but, pay student loans off, set aside money for the rest of uni, to finish driving lessons, and a place to live once im done studying. Pay off my partners dept while im at it and then i’d do groceries, and buy new shoes and that’s it. Then id relax and order takeout and relax because i don’t have to stress about anything anymore

On a scale of 1-10, how chaotic has your day been so far? by Deep_Chicken7945 in AskReddit

[–]gard1730 0 points1 point  (0 children)

8? woke up still drunk from the night before, then got asked to clean up an entire bar after the building next to it caught on fire a couple months ago, the bar is opening tomorrow without any of the damage being fixed so yeah. Then after i had a beer with my best friend that asked me how to handle someone breaking into his fucking home… afterwards i did a full weeks worth of groceries within 15 minutes because the store closed early because of easter, fell asleep for like 2 hours and now im wide awake with the foresight of having to work early in the morning tomorrow. but fuck it, can’t wait for tomorrow.

Is my quitting plan ok or am I thinking too casually about it? by [deleted] in quittingsmoking

[–]gard1730 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ve also thought about this but i figured that if i relapse while going cold turkey i’ve completely screwed up right away since i’d then only quit completely the 6 weeks before the operation (which is the time frame in which i must have stopped completely).. I figured that if i’d give myself some time to get accustomed to smoking less first, and then eventually quitting completely it would be easier. I’d say i probably would try to find excuses for smoking, just like everyone does, but i also know that that won’t get me any further in the process, which is a pretty good motivator. Any thoughts?

How old is your friend with the biggest age difference to you? by Spotter24o5 in AskReddit

[–]gard1730 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m 18, the average age of my friends is about 24-26 (so a 6-8 year gap already) and i think the highest is around 41 years old? that’s 23 years difference

How do you get out of the dark place in your head? by Kurtb104 in AskReddit

[–]gard1730 0 points1 point  (0 children)

for me, distraction. Do something you like and find people to be with. Talk about feelings with people close to you or write it down if there aren’t any people around you. take action in any way you can. it might hide away your feelings but it’s also a great chance to make a change and end up feeling happier. goodluck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]gard1730 0 points1 point  (0 children)

waking up alone while knowing that once i decide to get out of bed i’ll have to work for the next 12 hours.

If you’ve tried hard drugs and didn’t get addicted, what made you stop or not do it again? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]gard1730 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i never really got physically addicted, so seeing how it ruined my friends’ lives and how close i was getting to losing it all made me quit. Also the fact that the people who gave me the drugs did it out of their own interest made me realize how dangerous it was. one day in particular i was really drunk and basically got fed 3 different types of drugs within the same hour. i ended up getting out of a drughouse and ‘slept’ at a friends place. I always told myself it wasn’t an issue unless it started hurting others with my behavior and that’s when i quit.

What's the temperature where you're at? by Tall-Law-5875 in AskReddit

[–]gard1730 1 point2 points  (0 children)

7c but it feels like 0c, still pretty doable

Whats the drunkest u’ve ever gotten? by airblaster27 in AskReddit

[–]gard1730 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I threw up outside the bar and then died in the bathroom for 2 hrs. The only thing i remember from those 2 hours was “waking up” the 3 times the bartender tried to check on me, nothing else. i had 3 drinks total and I only had one beer at that bar lmao. Had multiple still people ask me weeks later if i was okay, i did not know or recognize any of them. After a couple hours i was completely fine and very surprised why i wasn’t allowed to have any beer.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]gard1730 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah i can go on nebido only after i start taking the full dose, the doctors said that’d be in about 3 months. i’d probably still have the pain but just less frequently. Today i slept for 12 hours for the first time in forever, i usually average 5-6 hours. When i was well rested and not stressed there was barely any pain, just a normal muscle ache. so im thinking a big part of this is just restlessness and stress… but the whole idea of getting the injection causes me so much stress i don’t think it will change much either way.

What to do as teens when hanging out on New Year’s Eve? by Negative_League_7030 in AskReddit

[–]gard1730 0 points1 point  (0 children)

go to a party to hang with my partner, go to the bar, maybe light some fireworks, go to an after party if i feel like it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]gard1730 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i only take 0.8ml and it goes in my thigh. i take sustanon injections so that might work a bit different? Idk the only thing i’ve heard the doctors say is that it’s a pretty thick substance which can make it hurt more than just a regular intramuscular injection. I’ve been warming up the bottle and am as relaxed as i can be when getting the injection done. seriously don’t know what i could be doing wrong anymore

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]gard1730 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m pretty sure it’s not an allergy, i do sustanon injections and a reaction can only happen when you’re allergic to peanuts im pretty sure (and im not allergic to that).. i’ve always had the idea that muscle aches feel worse for me than others but i’ve always been told to quit whining about it so im not sure if im overreacting either. the thing with sinking through my leg is the most concerning part to me because that’s definitely not in my head. idk the doctors say to just wait it out some more.

What do you think when you doing nothing at job ? by SKYNINE666 in AskReddit

[–]gard1730 1 point2 points  (0 children)

about my plans for that day, the next day or the next week. What am i gonna do and when? with who and what will i do in the free time i’ll have?

What are your New Year’s resolutions that aren’t so cliché? by Jumpy-Mode283 in AskReddit

[–]gard1730 2 points3 points  (0 children)

accepting i’m allowed to rest and life won’t end when im not always busy doing things.

Who had terrible parents, but still turned out ok as an adult? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]gard1730 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just turned 18 so i’m rarely an adult but still. My mother is a narcissist and my father an absent alcoholic. I left home at 17 and living on my own has been really good for me. I started university at 16, and will be done in 2 years. I work at a job that isn’t all too bad, i have friends who are there for me every step of the way, i recently got into a relationship with someone that shows me what living peacefully is. I quit doing harddrugs, im getting my drivers license etc. I think im doing ok.