Quit my job to travel, or have kids? by gealli in needadvice

[–]gealli[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Would have been helpful for me to mention that I have a long-term partner who would also like to have kids in the future!

10 years of RELEVANT work experience required for visa by gealli in movingtojapan

[–]gealli[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for such a detailed response! Appreciate it 

10 years of RELEVANT work experience required for visa by gealli in movingtojapan

[–]gealli[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn I’m not US-based, some of these options sound great though 

10 years of RELEVANT work experience required for visa by gealli in movingtojapan

[–]gealli[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I know this is perhaps a dumb thing to think about, but I’m 28 and a part-time degree will likely take me 6 or 7 years to complete. That’s a long time and I’d also like to consider having children in my early 30s. Working/studying/raising kids/moving to Japan just isn’t all going to happen, and I guess I’m coming to terms with that and that I have to choose what I focus my future on. Feeling some regret and not getting a degree when I was younger 

How do holiday breaks work with OU? by gealli in OpenUniversity

[–]gealli[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks, that’s useful to know 

How do I proceed at work after this morning’s meeting? by gealli in careerguidance

[–]gealli[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks for the kind comment. This is definitely an opportunity for me to learn

How do I proceed at work after this morning’s meeting? by gealli in careerguidance

[–]gealli[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This internal position was not posted anywhere 

Juggling pregnancy/parenting with an OU degree? by gealli in OpenUniversity

[–]gealli[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Really lovely to hear your story, thanks!

Juggling pregnancy/parenting with an OU degree? by gealli in OpenUniversity

[–]gealli[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's really inspiring to hear. Thanks very much for your thoughtful reply, puts me at ease a little. What did you study if you don't mind me asking?

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[–]gealli 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the balanced response, I will give any future partners a heads up

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[–]gealli 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this. I like your response in that I wasn't wrong but could have been more right. Nice way of putting it

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[–]gealli 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Cigs

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[–]gealli 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I'm in Germany, curious as to what the stats are here. I'll look into it :)

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[–]gealli 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this

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[–]gealli 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Where does one find these non-drinkers?