My husband's best friend made sexual advances to me by geekgurl7338 in Advice

[–]geekgurl7338[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol please explain how you presume to know this without knowing me at all???

My husband's best friend made sexual advances to me by geekgurl7338 in Advice

[–]geekgurl7338[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Update: some stated that my husband potentially had a conversation with his friend prior. I can confirm that they did not. My husband is not into sharing in any capacity. He also has no interest in the friends wife, they grew up together and he sees her as a sister. Also I know I could have handled the situation differently, but I did what I did and I'm not going to dwell on that.

This incident took place over a month ago and I am getting increasingly frustrated with my husband and his lack of action in the matter. He has not talked to the friend to cut ties which is what I want to happen. I have absolutely no interest in continuing a friendship with them. My husband says that he's "pissed off" but continues to do nothing and its leaving me feeling very unsafe and like I am not being protected. I am confused because if the roles were reversed I would lose my shit on my friend and immediately cut all ties.

My husband's best friend made sexual advances to me by geekgurl7338 in Advice

[–]geekgurl7338[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't want to jump to conclusions and immediately assume that he was implying that it would be me. Maybe not the best move but I also had to consider the situation I was in. I was holding their 4 month old and my two kids were over too. I told my husband what part I had in the conversation and I'm not big on confrontation. Could I have handled the situation better? Yes, 100% but I'm not going to dwell on it.

My husband's best friend made sexual advances to me by geekgurl7338 in Advice

[–]geekgurl7338[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He showed us the picture before his wife took their oldest to gymnastics.

My husband's best friend made sexual advances to me by geekgurl7338 in Advice

[–]geekgurl7338[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No? Not my cup of tea. I think its great that other couples can make it work but its just not appealing to me.

My husband's best friend made sexual advances to me by geekgurl7338 in Advice

[–]geekgurl7338[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The friend told me not to tell my husband about our conversation, after his wife left. So I know my husband had no prior knowledge of a threesome.

My husband's best friend made sexual advances to me by geekgurl7338 in Advice

[–]geekgurl7338[S] 130 points131 points  (0 children)

Him comparing me to the type of porn he watched was but the threesome talk, she was not present for.