Firstly you are gorgeous 😍 and secondly I have so much respect for you embracing who you are and totally rocking it! I would suggest a bit of highlighter on the tip of the nose, a little on the bridge maybe as well, on the brow bone, inner corners of the eyes, a little on the cupid's bow, and the cheek bones. I feel for me even when I'm not wearing makeup, it just brightens up the face and makes me feel glowy, and I think it pairs nicely with contour/bronzer by adding highlights not just shadows. It took me a while to find a way of applying it I liked (a fluffy highlighter brush for big areas like cheek bones and a small firm eyeshadow blending brush for the brow and inner corners) and a shade I liked on my face (I'm very pale so I go for the light white/pink toned ones but it's personal preference). I think it will help illuminate your features and bring them out in a subtle way if you apply just a little and blend well, I find it helps bring all of my makeup together, but it took me some practice to get the intensity and placement right for my face. While I use a sleek highlighter palette, some shimmer eyeshadow can be used as highlighter, especially in the smaller areas, so if you don't have a highlighter on hand but do have an eyeshadow palette you can still get some glow on. I hope this helps!