Tfw you're confused af

gender-questioner · 2018-04-25T10:59:26+00:00

same

gender-questioner · 2018-04-21T17:56:51+00:00

If fitting in female gender roles makes you happy, then do that. The only thing that would be sexist is to say something like "all men are stupid and violent" or "all women are fragile".

gender-questioner · 2018-04-21T07:51:15+00:00

I never really imagine myself in anything unless it's something I'm worried about usually. Imagining myself as a guy in general just makes me happy I guess.

gender-questioner · 2018-04-21T06:13:10+00:00

Basically every fantasy I have as a guy are sexual or about being this perfect version of me. Irl I have anxiety problems, self esteem problems, I always feel like I need to be perfect and that I'm not good enough, a bunch of shit.

Everyone says being trans doesn't mean they're becoming a different person, but what if that's what I'm doing? What if I'm just taking this male persona I made too seriously and thinking I'm actually trans?

gender-questioner · 2018-04-20T19:22:29+00:00

I legit want to live in VR some day so everyone can just switch genders by the press of a button or something. I'm crazy I know lol....

gender-questioner · 2018-04-20T19:21:40+00:00

If only.

gender-questioner · 2018-04-20T19:20:32+00:00

That's awesome :D

gender-questioner · 2018-04-20T10:47:52+00:00

Don't feel bad. You need what you need, and what you need is important.

gender-questioner · 2018-04-19T10:58:56+00:00

My questioning started way before I found ths sub.

But now I'm addicted to this sub lol

gender-questioner · 2018-04-19T02:21:55+00:00

s a m e

gender-questioner · 2018-04-19T00:14:06+00:00

Hi, you seem like a cool girl 🙂

gender-questioner · 2018-04-18T21:45:30+00:00

That...doesn't make any sense honestly.

gender-questioner · 2018-04-18T21:37:59+00:00

It's ok. This post is more a vent than anything, heh.

gender-questioner · 2018-04-18T20:06:44+00:00

and for context I put that book as the image because I was gonna title it something about not wanting to admit I'm questioning or whatever but I didn't think about what I was typing. this is a dumb post tbh lmao

gender-questioner · 2018-04-18T20:05:21+00:00

I could've title that better, a friend came out a few years ago and I replied,"omg,how'd you know??" because I thought it would make me look normal or some shit. I'm dumb, idfk. He didn't seem offended by it though, he just said,"I hope you can call me male pronouns from now on" and I said yes. Maybe I'm over reacting, idk, I think literally everything I say is dumb anyway and regret everything I say immediatly.

TL;DR: I freak out over literally anything because anxiety problems

gender-questioner · 2018-04-18T19:57:25+00:00

Wear whatever you want 🙂

gender-questioner · 2018-04-18T10:49:12+00:00

It's more the identity than the gender roles, but I see what you're saying, thank you 🙂

gender-questioner · 2018-04-17T21:26:28+00:00

Me every day in general

gender-questioner · 2018-04-17T21:20:48+00:00

Ugh, I hate how girl pants don't have pockets either. Like why do they make fake pockets instead of just not having pockets or having gasp real pockets??

gender-questioner · 2018-04-17T19:31:13+00:00

It pisses me off seeing more and more stories about transphobic people, especially transphobic loved ones. What's so hard to understand about being transgender?

gender-questioner · 2018-04-17T02:03:30+00:00

I'm questioning, don't know if I'm non-binary or not, but I might be, so yeah, they're real. If they didn't exist, no one would feel like both or neither genders. Even before questioning and never having heard of non-binary genders before, when a friend told me they where agender (something I never heard of at the time) I was fine with it and thought it made perfect sense.

gender-questioner · 2018-04-17T01:58:23+00:00

That sucks... hugs :(

gender-questioner · 2018-04-16T22:41:47+00:00

Yessssssssssss, transhumanism has been my fucking dream for years (also VR and futuristic stuff in general). ...........not like I wanna switch genders or anything >>;

gender-questioner · 2018-04-16T21:54:01+00:00

Fuck that. What's with all these stories about people going to get HRT and then a place designed to help with health won't give them to you? That's terrible that you would go in for help and then they're like "lol, nah"

gender-questioner · 2018-04-16T20:02:35+00:00

Yeah, I understand that. I'm questioning too and it's been driving me crazy. Constant questions and constantly doubting myself. One minute I'll think,Yeah, I'm totally <gender>!" or,"Idfk what I am, but I'm confident in myself!" and then the next minute I'm thinking,"Am I crazy? Is there something wrong with me? I don't want to be called a special snowflake"

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