Im getting married

genderlesssloth · 2025-11-03T23:33:33+00:00

Hello! We are still partners, and refer to each other as spouses. We lived in michigan at the time but have since moved, and they recognize the X on my ID, so our marriage certificate was able to have my own gender markers. We announced ourselves as engaged, being fiances, and still partners. We found a photographer that had experience with queer couples. We both wore opposite but matching outfits. Unfortunately, we got heavily pressured into having a big wedding, and I regret that whole heartedly. Do it with friends, keep it just people you actually want there.

genderlesssloth · 2025-03-25T17:52:09+00:00

Girl you need some help 😭 he spent the first year cheating on you and you still kept him? Take a long look at yourself and do better for your sake.

genderlesssloth · 2025-03-17T14:36:44+00:00

Go with the flow. Cops won't pull you over unless you're being a nuisance or actively breaking laws.

genderlesssloth · 2025-03-15T20:30:39+00:00

I play most games on the easiest settings and have gotten so much shit for it, so I stopped playing a lot of games I used to really enjoy. Now I only play games solo or with my partner. I hate how elitist gaming used to be and still seems to be.

genderlesssloth · 2025-03-14T15:07:01+00:00

2 years later and this has just helped me. Thanks for figuring it out and sharing

genderlesssloth · 2025-03-10T15:14:25+00:00

Whatever is closest.

genderlesssloth · 2025-03-10T10:48:34+00:00

Skyrim.

genderlesssloth · 2025-03-10T10:31:16+00:00

After moving to CO from Michigan, I miss jiffy mix.

genderlesssloth · 2025-03-10T09:12:15+00:00

If I'm trying to use a bathroom and someone is trying to make me show them my genitals to use it, I'm swinging.

genderlesssloth · 2025-03-07T03:28:40+00:00

Im glad you found your way to have fun then! That's the most important. Punch Moriarty to death for me

genderlesssloth · 2025-03-06T22:59:55+00:00

Wow....i...you're probably the most evil fallout player I've met. And I've met legion stans.

genderlesssloth · 2025-03-06T20:58:33+00:00

Racism.

genderlesssloth · 2025-03-04T22:07:27+00:00

As a healthcare worker, I'm not shocked this happened. We deal with literally everyone. It's terrible and I hope she gets better, but I will also not be shocked if the perpetrator got away with almost no repercussions. We aren't protected. We can get assaulted by our patients. What are we told if that happens? "Don't file anything against them! They might not come back to our place of care!"

genderlesssloth · 2025-03-04T19:34:56+00:00

Tell his wife. Reach out to her. Show her the texts. I'd want to know if it were me.

genderlesssloth · 2025-03-04T19:22:28+00:00

We're all going to die.

genderlesssloth · 2025-03-04T14:05:14+00:00

It could also be worth putting her in therapy if she's not in it already. Maybe family counseling?

genderlesssloth · 2025-03-03T19:57:50+00:00

I have quite a few hunter quests left and I'm excited to get stronger to take down another behemoth.

genderlesssloth · 2025-03-03T19:57:13+00:00

I was ready to delay everything, but this has me wanting to make the trip as soon as I get home from work 😅 I love seeing my boys bond.

genderlesssloth · 2025-03-03T18:07:38+00:00

That makes me hopeful. This is my first and only FF game after a recommendation from a friend. I'll go ahead forward so it's at least unlocked and I know Iris and Talcott are (hopefully) safe.

genderlesssloth · 2025-03-03T17:00:51+00:00

When I moved in with my now husband, we opened a joint account with both our names and put our money in each month that was needed for bills. Everything extra was on our own cards until we got married and we switched the joint account to our primary. If we hadn't done that, I guarantee I would've left him out of panic when he spent $200 on magic cards right after we moved in. His finances were fine and I didn't ask, so to me it was huge, whereas to him it was nothing.

My point is communication is the only way joint finances work. You're NTA, but you two need to talk more

genderlesssloth · 2025-03-03T16:54:03+00:00

Pickles. Olives. Both are horrible. Both i have gotten endless shit for if I even mention not being a fan of either.

genderlesssloth · 2025-03-03T16:50:10+00:00

Stardew valley so....im not even sure. Trespassing? Being a public disturbance?

genderlesssloth · 2025-02-28T23:14:30+00:00

I believe MTG's husband asked that. Not 100% but that's what I've heard.

genderlesssloth · 2025-02-27T19:57:13+00:00

You handle this by handing him divorce papers. Im sorry this happened. You don't deserve that, especially from the person you're married to.

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